Why a man may not be happy with wealth and success

Women are considered good actresses. But when you find out what the harsh masks of men hide, it becomes a little sad. The modern rhythm of life brings them many adventures and trials, which is why the psyche does not always withstand, but the world is not at all interested in the experiences of the stronger sex, because this is not accepted. A man must be powerful and unshakable.



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Psychologists identify 4 main men's problemsThey live in big cities. As practice shows, even the most successful and athletic men often do not understand what they want in life. Editorial "Site" It will tell you what worries modern men.

Men's Weaknesses

1. They don’t know what they want from life.
   A problem that concerns many. The most amazing thing is that successful, wealthy and athletic men don’t enjoy their lives, and the problem is that they don’t know what they want. The achievements they have, they have achieved them not by choice, but by the desire to have universal love, universal approval. Because they do not have an inner possibility to rely on themselves, just as there is no love for themselves. Often inside such a man lives a narcissist who lives for the approval of others. Everyone admires him, and in the evenings he turns into a miserable man who has everything falling out of his hands. The situation is inflamed by popular social networks that set certain trends and flaunt happiness.
   
   
   
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2. Asocial type of men
   In recent years, representatives of a new category of men - computer scientists who do not know how to build relationships - have increasingly begun to register for an appointment with psychotherapists. Often these people are closed and do not like to be in public. “In our practice, such clients are called schizoids, these are those who have the main problem in the difficulty of approaching and finding distance between themselves and another person,” says one of the psychologists. Girls seem too intrusive, friends dangerous.
   
   
   
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3. They like a small salary.
   It would seem that who can be satisfied with a small income? There are people who constantly complain about low wages. Every time they come to an appointment with a specialist and complain about their life, work, boss. But they don't change anything. And all because they are satisfied with this situation. In this situation, there is even a benefit: such men often consider themselves better than others, they even have some superiority. I suffer, so I'm better. And they also have this attitude: "Everyone is to blame, and I have nothing to do with it." They like to be pitied. The worst part is that they don’t understand their problem.
   
   
   
   
   
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4. Treat a woman like a thing.
   One of the common problems is that men cannot build relationships with women. Too many demands and incomprehensible ideals. At first, a man feels that he has met his love, he projects his ideals on his partner, but he does not see the real one. And when he begins to notice inconsistencies between his projection and reality, the whole image falls apart. A man treats a woman more like a thing than a close person. There's a whole list of what she should, but there's no idea what she's like in everyday life.
   
   
   
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Any problem is the result of many psychological blocks, which were not paid attention in time. Some circumstances from childhood prevent you from enjoying life, and some complexes a person could have acquired a month ago. In any case, you need to try to understand yourself.

We also talked about how to recognize a man’s inability to start a serious relationship.

All men are different, but many share similar weaknesses. Share your thoughts on this topic in the comments.

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