Money is one of the channels of energy connection between a man and a woman.
Sometimes a woman feels awkward in front of a man because of money issues. Do I need to take the man's money? Some are afraid to seem greedy and I hesitate to even mention about money, others worry about whether her partner and all crook trying to take more from him.
A sense of proportion and tact in this matter is formed out of love for the man and correct self-assessment of yourself, your feminine wisdom and self-sufficiency.
Don't want to talk about money as money. Let's try to deal with this problem. Your attitude toward money, with the desire and ability to take them from men deep is your attitude and your ability to participate at all. It's your attitude towards yourself, people and life.If you are confident in yourself the question: "do I Need to take the man's money?" will not even arise in your head.
And if not, then you will always be doubt in this matter, to worry, not too much you ask or not too little.
You will be money put in the first place, or will pay for a kindergarten child, not daring to voice the man of their financial problems.Smart, loving woman always knows when and how to tell about their desires.
And for the man who loves you will be enough to hear a one-time request or desire of his partner.
If a woman does not feel love and emotional warmth from her husband, he gives her what she really needs, she can punish him the money and get a little internal satisfaction which is sometimes expressed in specific numbers or things.In this case, for women money is a weak solace and little evidence of men's love for her.
For someone Finance is a male attribute, like clockwork. The ability to earn requires the male mind and the presence of male qualities. The woman involuntarily starts to respect secured the man, feeling his strength, or, conversely, begins to be afraid of him.
Someone who intuitively understands that to win a man, if he invested in the relationship. For some men it is very expensive time. A woman will ask about the time spent with her. Others are not so generous, and then for women are important resources. And in fact, if a man begins to compromise in the relationship then it is bound to the woman and begins to appreciate her and cherish her.
If a woman knows that the man is spending money reluctantly, and she begins to protect it from anxiety, it is a little mistaken. Any emotional involvement of men in relationships creates a strong bond with you. Do not be afraid to strain the man their requests.
This fear is likely to occur when you are experiencing stress when asking for money.For man's ability to spend money on a woman is his deep relationship to return.
The avaricious man is unlikely to be generous with the woman emotions.
Money is, first of all, the energy that man gives to the woman. It's not just papers, it is his masculine strength, his way to keep a woman next to him. Not in terms of purchases and in terms of deep unconscious attitudes which reflect a General ability to be in a relationship.Do I need to take the man's money?
The answer to this question can give only to you. Are you ready to take the male energy and give their women. Are you ready for a relationship with him? To exchange? Interactions?
If someone of you has a son, remember how he made you gifts to birthday and other holidays. As saving up the money you gave him for lunch, only to have to buy you a bouquet of Mimosas on March 8. Remember how he always wanted to do something nice for you, to earn your approval and praise?
If the mother in early childhood has not rescued the boy hunting, to try for her, he will try to please his wife and children.
Now imagine a boy is getting married, and the wife tells him that she does not need anything, money is not important, the main thing — love. What a woman does with a man? Castrates! And at once.
In the first year really want love and attention, and this man begins to love a woman, but, unfortunately, not having money. He gets used not to get money, relaxes, and then the wife begins to accuse him that he is not able to earn.
In this case, your humility and love for a spouse kills him as a man. And then you yourself will lose respect for him, and your feelings will be over.
Do not go too far!
Some women think: "If he loves, he needs to understand. Not ask nicely".
Depends on how you ask! If you feel shame and awkwardness, then you are actually asking. And if you sincerely, with love to the man talk about your desires – more than normal.
If the man gives the woman money, it first says that he is not ready to be in these close relations. He has nothing to give you, and therefore, no energy exchange occurs. Relationship is exchange.
Man is your mirror. That is, in your unconscious hidden parts that can't be in a relationship with a man.
You also have nothing to give him, even though you may think otherwise. I'm talking about selfless giving, about the ability to love another as yourself.
If a woman is afraid, embarrassed to take money from men, its attitude to such requests reflects its deep relationship to men — the fear, the guilt, the shame, the awkwardness, the embarrassment. Similarly, in the reverse situation. If a woman requires money, leaves no choice to the man and sees the man for money, then what else can be said about love.Money is one of the channels of energy connection between a man and a woman.
If someone can't give, and someone to take, the relationship is broken. Think about your attitude to men in General. Does not reflect any problem with the money in your relationship other deeper complexity.If a couple in love, the natural desire of man to provide for his family and wife.
It's so nice to feel the master. And the woman with gratitude and pleasure to accept his gifts and his desires support his desire to act, thereby fanning the flame of his male power and energy.
Or another example, when a woman just requirements commensurate with the capabilities of the partner. What is she doing? Right again, castrates. Only in a different way. She said: "no matter How you tried, but still doesn't make me happy." Well, unless men have an incentive to do something?
A big gap in your men's desires and opportunities makes it impossible for the growth. The man doesn't have to kill desire. So, your request should be slightly higher than what it can today. So you motivate him, creating for him the zone of proximal development.Finances in relationships play an important role.
If a woman doesn't need men, suggests that she does not want or is afraid to take a strong partner in your space – host. Doesn't want to take responsibility for themselves, doesn't want to be his wife for real. To be a wife and to FEEL like a wife – are two different things.As soon as a woman refuses a male money, it is at this point refuses men.
What's behind women's modesty? The fear of losing a partner? The desire to prove their unconditional love? The desire to retain their freedom and independence?Why are you ashamed or uncomfortable to take money from the person you love?
Taking money from him, you raise your eyes man and discover the road to his respect, and gently pushes wife to his achievements and aspirations. He always needs to think about where and how to make money.
These thoughts include his masculine energy. He must have the desire to please his beloved, provided that the woman does not kill this desire.What prevents you to take money from men? How to learn to take?
- Close your eyes, take 3 deep breaths and exhale. Imagine the man you would like to get the money. If there is no such yet in your life, imagine any male figure. Will look at it. How does he look? What's his face?
- Now imagine that it comes from the flow of money. Please note what you are feeling? What is a stream? If he gets to you? Analyze your feelings and what they saw. In this way you can simulate the flows, to remove obstacles to work with their feelings.
- Express to him my sincere gratitude, love, admiration. Tell
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- Now ask him for money. Observe your feelings for the male reaction. Analyze does not reflect whether men's attitude to your request is your attitude to such requests? Model of the situation and all the time observe that you as the transformation of the images became comfortable.
- Remember! A man wants to be needed, loved and most importantly – to be the best for you! Rejecting his money, you are depriving yourself of the opportunity to be with him, to love and respect him.
Money symbolize the outward manifestation of internal processes. published
Author: Irina Gavrilova Dempsey