Why does the mother-in-law mumble when the house of the daughter-in-law is not cleaned

Acquaintance with the bride of the son is one of the most significant events in the life of every mother. Many have high hopes for the future daughter-in-law. So we look forward to seeing her for the first time to make sure those hopes are met. And how sad when in the end, meeting with the bride of the son instead of joy brings only disappointment. The heroine of our history today knows this firsthand.

My son Anton for a long time could not meet a girl with whom he would like to connect his life. Of course, I helped him find the bride as best I could. I introduced him to the daughters of all my best friends, and he was wiggling his nose. But each as a selection - and beautiful, and clever, and the hostess is wonderful! Yes, only that it is useful to try to explain to the son, if he still misses the mother's advice...



I finally decided to stop trying in vain to help him. Let him live his own life if he wants to. And just a couple of months ago, Antosha said that in fact, as a year met the same and soon intends to marry.



There was no limit to my surprise! As it turned out, all this time they were living together and kept their relationship a secret, “why not bother” neither me nor her parents.



Anton lives apart from me and I rarely visited him. He usually insisted that he would come to me. I used to think it was his constant employment and didn't want to bother him. And now I understand the real reason for his strange behavior.



After my son reported the news, I naturally wanted to meet my future daughter-in-law as soon as possible. But every time I mentioned it, Antosha would shift the conversation to a completely different topic.



But one day I decided that it was time to take the initiative and visit my son. I did not call and warn future newlyweds, because I was afraid that my son would find a reason this time not to introduce me to his bride.

It is impossible to put into words the emotions that boiled inside me when I crossed the threshold of Antoshina’s apartment. I've never seen his house so dirty. My daughter-in-law met me in an old robe and with shabby hair. The clock has long since struck noon!



To say that I was shocked by what was happening is to say nothing. I still do not understand how my son managed to fall in love with such a sloppy and sloppy.