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The daughter-in-law does not want to communicate, even though I gave the newlyweds an apartment
Family relationships It could go bad at any time. Especially often conflicts occur between people who did not choose each other, but intermarried by chance. Not surprisingly, the relationship of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is rarely warm.
Today's edition. "Site" She will share the story of an elderly woman who single-handedly raised two sons, but ended up all alone, even though she had no intention of doing anything wrong. Will she eventually be able to build a relationship?
My husband and I separated a long time ago. The oldest was 10 years old, the youngest is only 4. I had to raise my children alone, and remarriage did not work out. But I didn't lose heart, I coped. And my mother helped me a lot. When I worked from morning to night, she took children to school, and took, and fed.
“The sons grew up handsome and received higher education. Even when the junior was studying at the institute, I decided to go abroad to work. In total, she stayed there for almost ten years. On returning, I was able to buy an apartment in a new building in a good neighborhood.”
“The eldest son was already married at that time. And although they lived with their daughter-in-law's parents, they were building their country house step by step and were soon going to move there. So I didn't worry about them. I was hoping more for my younger son.”
“He was just about to get married. I only saw his daughter-in-law a few times, but she seemed calm and reasonable. And the son was sure that with this young lady he wanted to build a family. All I could do was rejoice.”
“In the end, I gave the apartment to my youngest son. They had a beautiful wedding because they wanted to have a party. The eldest son was not offended, he understood everything. He's got a lot of work to do, he's a construction guy, and he lives a long way. How will they help me? Here's the younger one. I've been dreaming about babysitting my grandchildren. But no.
On the second day, I came to visit them. Worried if everything was okay. My daughter-in-law asked me to sit down at the table and told me that it was better to see each other only on holidays, not every day. So, they say, only we will get closer and quarrel less often.
"Wow, come on. I bought them an apartment, and I helped them with the wedding, and they're so grateful. The daughter-in-law behaved well before the wedding. I was afraid my son would come to his senses in time. And now I decided to show my true character.””
“My illusions about my daughter-in-law melted away, but I couldn’t believe that my son was on her side, too. Seen only on holidays... Is that what a relationship with a mother should be like? They live in an apartment that I earned abroad, but now I can't even go there? ?
“The eldest son is on my side, he is also outraged by this behavior of his daughter-in-law, and his brother is unhappy. But it doesn't make me feel better. I thought that in my old age I would be surrounded by relatives, I worked for this. And it turned out very differently. I don’t know what to do next, the woman said.
It seems that family relations They are not developing in the best way. Perhaps during the years Nadezhda was abroad, the children managed to distance themselves from her. And in this case, building good relationships with daughters-in-law is more difficult. But should we jump to conclusions?
Maybe a young family needs time to improve their lives and understand themselves? Maybe they're just not ready to have guests every day. Is it worth paying so much attention to the family? Why don’t you focus on your business and interests? Perhaps we should go abroad again?
Today's edition. "Site" She will share the story of an elderly woman who single-handedly raised two sons, but ended up all alone, even though she had no intention of doing anything wrong. Will she eventually be able to build a relationship?
My husband and I separated a long time ago. The oldest was 10 years old, the youngest is only 4. I had to raise my children alone, and remarriage did not work out. But I didn't lose heart, I coped. And my mother helped me a lot. When I worked from morning to night, she took children to school, and took, and fed.
“The sons grew up handsome and received higher education. Even when the junior was studying at the institute, I decided to go abroad to work. In total, she stayed there for almost ten years. On returning, I was able to buy an apartment in a new building in a good neighborhood.”
“The eldest son was already married at that time. And although they lived with their daughter-in-law's parents, they were building their country house step by step and were soon going to move there. So I didn't worry about them. I was hoping more for my younger son.”
“He was just about to get married. I only saw his daughter-in-law a few times, but she seemed calm and reasonable. And the son was sure that with this young lady he wanted to build a family. All I could do was rejoice.”
“In the end, I gave the apartment to my youngest son. They had a beautiful wedding because they wanted to have a party. The eldest son was not offended, he understood everything. He's got a lot of work to do, he's a construction guy, and he lives a long way. How will they help me? Here's the younger one. I've been dreaming about babysitting my grandchildren. But no.
On the second day, I came to visit them. Worried if everything was okay. My daughter-in-law asked me to sit down at the table and told me that it was better to see each other only on holidays, not every day. So, they say, only we will get closer and quarrel less often.
"Wow, come on. I bought them an apartment, and I helped them with the wedding, and they're so grateful. The daughter-in-law behaved well before the wedding. I was afraid my son would come to his senses in time. And now I decided to show my true character.””
“My illusions about my daughter-in-law melted away, but I couldn’t believe that my son was on her side, too. Seen only on holidays... Is that what a relationship with a mother should be like? They live in an apartment that I earned abroad, but now I can't even go there? ?
“The eldest son is on my side, he is also outraged by this behavior of his daughter-in-law, and his brother is unhappy. But it doesn't make me feel better. I thought that in my old age I would be surrounded by relatives, I worked for this. And it turned out very differently. I don’t know what to do next, the woman said.
It seems that family relations They are not developing in the best way. Perhaps during the years Nadezhda was abroad, the children managed to distance themselves from her. And in this case, building good relationships with daughters-in-law is more difficult. But should we jump to conclusions?
Maybe a young family needs time to improve their lives and understand themselves? Maybe they're just not ready to have guests every day. Is it worth paying so much attention to the family? Why don’t you focus on your business and interests? Perhaps we should go abroad again?
Should I tell my daughter-in-law that I saw her husband with someone else?
What to ask of St. Barbara, the good intercessor of all women