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On Sunday, she visited her daughter-in-law, inadvertently crying when she saw the state of their apartment.
Not in every family, the relationship of daughter-in-law and mother-in-law develops smoothly. Sometimes problems can begin because of a trifle, and sometimes mutual claims are quite justified and accumulate every day. Therefore, the longer the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law know each other, the more difficult it is for them to tolerate each other.
Today's edition. "Site" She shared the story of a mother-in-law who quickly realized that her daughter-in-law... irresponsible. But it seems that the son of a woman is quite happy with his wife and ready to protect her. Is it worth interfering with a young family?
Already at the first meeting I realized that this girl is not ready for married life. It's not about her age, she was 23. The problem is that she has no sense of responsibility. But my son doesn't seem to understand that, Oksana writes.
When he brought her to meet us, Tanya was very restrained. Sitting quietly, just nodding. But when she moved to the sofa after tea, it seemed to me that she had forgotten about our presence. I ran into my phone and sat all night. Later, the son said that Tanya in the situation, and they filed a statement to the registry office.
Instead of getting married, they signed up and sat with friends in a cafe. Before the baby was born, they decided to stay with us. I was afraid that I would not find a common language with this girl, but everything went smoothly. She used to break away from my phone and help me with cleaning and cooking. It turned out that she cooked very well. I calmed down a little.
Before the birth of our grandson, we rented a young apartment near our house, put it in order. My son was told that we would not interfere in their lives, we would also get bored. But if they need our help, we are always there.
After discharge, they met as they should. My son gave Tanya an expensive tablet. Said the wife would be able to find useful information for childcare. We celebrated the birth of a grandson with us, and then took the young to a rented apartment.
It's been a few days. It has been a week. And no one's calling. But I want to see my grandson. I couldn't stand it, the first one called. Said I'd run on Sunday. I bought diapers for the promotion, took fruit and went to visit.
My son was not at home, Tanya opened the door. She was not holding a baby, but a phone. There was not even a bag in the hallway. It was a mess!
Dirty clothes were lying everywhere in the apartment, although there is definitely a washing machine in the apartment. There was a mountain of unwashed dishes in the kitchen, which no one seems to have washed after settling in. How is that possible?
I went to my room. Next to the baby's bed is a coffee table, a tablet on top. The daughter-in-law had already put down her phone and focused on the tablet.
I'm with the baby and he's wet. I washed him, dressed him dry, began to lull him. And she waited for the moment and looked at what the daughter-in-law is doing in the tablet. It's a game! Nothing useful. There's dirt everywhere, the baby's wet, and she's playing games?
She waited until the child fell asleep and went. I called my son on the street and couldn’t help it. I said everything I thought about his sloppy wife. Threatened that the owners of the apartment, when they see this mess, immediately evicted. I won't let them live with me anymore. Not small anymore!
He mumbled something and hung up on me. I just have tears in my eyes. All right, son, he's working, and on the weekend he wants to meet up with his friends, relax. But Tanya is at home. Give me some free time. And she can not wash, nor the child to change or remove.
How do you explain to her that she's a mother, not a little girl, to whom you serve tablet games? I can't take that tablet away from her so she can do something around the house.
I could not even imagine that my grandson would live in such a pigsty, but there was no hope that the daughter-in-law would suddenly become a good mistress, Oksana complains.
Perhaps the young people have not yet managed to establish their way of life, because they live separately only a few days. Yes, and fuss with the child probably takes away enough strength from the daughter-in-law. Therefore, it is too early to draw conclusions and say that the daughter-in-law is an irresponsible person.
Either way. young He just learns to organize his life, and it is not surprising that not everything works. But let young parents learn from their mistakes and build their lives as comfortable as they are. Therefore, the mother-in-law should not be worried about this. At least for now.
Today's edition. "Site" She shared the story of a mother-in-law who quickly realized that her daughter-in-law... irresponsible. But it seems that the son of a woman is quite happy with his wife and ready to protect her. Is it worth interfering with a young family?
Already at the first meeting I realized that this girl is not ready for married life. It's not about her age, she was 23. The problem is that she has no sense of responsibility. But my son doesn't seem to understand that, Oksana writes.
When he brought her to meet us, Tanya was very restrained. Sitting quietly, just nodding. But when she moved to the sofa after tea, it seemed to me that she had forgotten about our presence. I ran into my phone and sat all night. Later, the son said that Tanya in the situation, and they filed a statement to the registry office.
Instead of getting married, they signed up and sat with friends in a cafe. Before the baby was born, they decided to stay with us. I was afraid that I would not find a common language with this girl, but everything went smoothly. She used to break away from my phone and help me with cleaning and cooking. It turned out that she cooked very well. I calmed down a little.
Before the birth of our grandson, we rented a young apartment near our house, put it in order. My son was told that we would not interfere in their lives, we would also get bored. But if they need our help, we are always there.
After discharge, they met as they should. My son gave Tanya an expensive tablet. Said the wife would be able to find useful information for childcare. We celebrated the birth of a grandson with us, and then took the young to a rented apartment.
It's been a few days. It has been a week. And no one's calling. But I want to see my grandson. I couldn't stand it, the first one called. Said I'd run on Sunday. I bought diapers for the promotion, took fruit and went to visit.
My son was not at home, Tanya opened the door. She was not holding a baby, but a phone. There was not even a bag in the hallway. It was a mess!
Dirty clothes were lying everywhere in the apartment, although there is definitely a washing machine in the apartment. There was a mountain of unwashed dishes in the kitchen, which no one seems to have washed after settling in. How is that possible?
I went to my room. Next to the baby's bed is a coffee table, a tablet on top. The daughter-in-law had already put down her phone and focused on the tablet.
I'm with the baby and he's wet. I washed him, dressed him dry, began to lull him. And she waited for the moment and looked at what the daughter-in-law is doing in the tablet. It's a game! Nothing useful. There's dirt everywhere, the baby's wet, and she's playing games?
She waited until the child fell asleep and went. I called my son on the street and couldn’t help it. I said everything I thought about his sloppy wife. Threatened that the owners of the apartment, when they see this mess, immediately evicted. I won't let them live with me anymore. Not small anymore!
He mumbled something and hung up on me. I just have tears in my eyes. All right, son, he's working, and on the weekend he wants to meet up with his friends, relax. But Tanya is at home. Give me some free time. And she can not wash, nor the child to change or remove.
How do you explain to her that she's a mother, not a little girl, to whom you serve tablet games? I can't take that tablet away from her so she can do something around the house.
I could not even imagine that my grandson would live in such a pigsty, but there was no hope that the daughter-in-law would suddenly become a good mistress, Oksana complains.
Perhaps the young people have not yet managed to establish their way of life, because they live separately only a few days. Yes, and fuss with the child probably takes away enough strength from the daughter-in-law. Therefore, it is too early to draw conclusions and say that the daughter-in-law is an irresponsible person.
Either way. young He just learns to organize his life, and it is not surprising that not everything works. But let young parents learn from their mistakes and build their lives as comfortable as they are. Therefore, the mother-in-law should not be worried about this. At least for now.
Jelly "Herring under a fur coat", which will famously plug the classical belt
I don’t throw out old torn tights, but bring it to my mother, and she does wonders.