How to make love to your daughter-in-law Bashny.Net

A daughter-in-law is a source of anxiety for almost every mother-in-law. They say that the mother’s heart feels everything, knows everything. An unmarried girl who comes into the house, one way or another, will be under the scrutiny of the groom's mother. Maybe your daughter-in-law just wants your son’s money or something. Young women sometimes decide on a marriage of convenience, and the mother must protect her son from this.





Someone will think that the mother-in-law should not interfere in the lives of young people, but what to do if the daughter-in-law has bad intentions? There is nothing wrong with a mother who has lived in the world longer than young spouses, give them a couple of tips, and at the same time look at the daughter-in-law.





The topic is not easy, and we decided to understand it from all sides. Editorial "Site" She shares with you a story about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which one of the readers told us. The story is twofold, even we have not fully figured out who is right and who is to blame. We leave it to you.

When Arthur turned 27, he introduced his mother Anastasia Isoldovna to his daughter-in-law. Olga was not very good herself: thin, with long hair, of course dyed, in some garments. In appearance, she could be given 19-25 years. She worked as an ice cream salesman, without education, from a poor family. Arthur, a programmer with a good salary, this girl was clearly not suitable. But what can you do, love!





They lived together for four months in the apartment that Arthur rented. There was enough money, so he didn’t need much help from his mother, except to ask for cleaning advice sometimes. My mother-in-law had never heard of her young children.





After a modest wedding "for their own" Olga even visited her new mother several times to visit and talk. We talked about abstract topics: cooking, cleaning, the latest gossip. There was nothing to complain about, but the mother’s heart smelled something wrong.





Each time the daughter-in-law came in a new suit, with good makeup. She recovered a little, just right. And now the hair shone bright red, full of strength and energy. The look was bold and glowing with confidence.

Arthur, on the other hand, took a little dip. An old jacket and bags under the eyes hurt my mother's heart. And the news that Olya was fired from another job did not give any positive.





But the last straw for Anastasia Izoldovna was the visit of her longtime friend. So, a friend can be years old, but she was a modern woman: she showed how to use social networks, in particular Facebook. And there, after viewing the page of the son, they came across the profile of his wife Olga.





Photos from parties, buffets and permanent holidays. Lights, fireworks and all the city's nightclubs, and no pictures with her husband. Everything fell into place. The mother-in-law realized that her son was simply being used.





After a family conversation on high tones in the relationship between mother and son, discord broke out. The son did not want to react to the walking wife. And her mother couldn't even see her. Even a temporary truce for the New Year, which the whole family decided to celebrate, did not help. Congratulations from son and daughter-in-law They did not have the desired effect, and everyone remained at his own.





In the end, people never reconciled. The son continued to work at the whim of his wife. As it turns out, daughter-in-law He comes in the morning from time to time, but swears he was at a party with his girlfriends. And the mother-in-law has a headache from all this, but she can do nothing.

What do you do in such a situation? On the one hand, the son is satisfied with everything, he lives well. But on the other hand, the daughter-in-law may have entered into this marriage purely for mercenary reasons. Is there any way to fix this? Is there a way to love your daughter-in-law?





We, the editorial board. "Site"For her part, I would advise Anastasia Izoldovna first of all to pull herself together. To invite Olya to a frank conversation and discuss everything together. Perhaps the situation is as harmless as her daughter-in-law says. She could also talk to Olga's parents and find out what kind of child she was.

The older generation may misunderstand a person’s life on social media. It often happens that photos do not correspond to the lifestyle of a person. And if in the images we see a cheerful, energetic, taking everything from life person, over the matter their master may be a closed and calm introvert.





And, after all, someone else’s family is dark, they say. The main thing is that life in marriage suits both partners. Perhaps it is, because it is not for nothing that they say that marriages by calculation statistically live longer than marriages for love. It’s an uncomfortable truth, yet life is just that.

What do you think of that?