When my daughter-in-law said my son had changed, I didn't take it seriously, but then I realized it.

Today I want to tell you a story about how I lost the right to own my own apartment. It's all about my son's marriage, my divorce, and their shared heirs. Looking ahead, I will ask readers to answer in the comments whether alimony for a minor child must be paid in money. What do you think? If, for example, the father gave housing to his ex-wife or paid a large sum of money, he must also pay child support for minor children?



Alimony for minor children and the housing issue we married in 1983. We worked hard because we dreamed of a big family. And the lawn to the bunny itself is not often given, as we know. So I had to add a penny to a penny and in many ways deny myself. When we had enough money, I got pregnant. A son was born. They chose a beautiful ancient Greek name for him – Alexander.



Of course, we planned to please the firstborn with brothers or sisters. However, fate was destined for me and my husband to have only one child. For years, we couldn’t accept this scenario. But it soon became clear that even one child was priceless. Our Sashenka grew up in absolute love. My husband and I tried to provide my son with a happy childhood and do not refuse anything. If God has given us only one child, then let all resources go to his needs and desires.



A new family and the birth of a granddaughter While studying at the capital's university, Sasha had a girl. And when his son graduated and received his diploma, he proposed to Lisa a marriage. After the wedding, I let them live in my apartment. She moved to a private house that was built with her husband. I thought I'd let the young family move downtown. I'm going to run my own beds and live a quiet village life. By then, Alexander's father, my husband Peter, had died of lung cancer.



The next year after the wedding, Sasha and Lisa baby. I often come to the city to see my children and granddaughter. She helped a young mother with a child and delighted her loved ones with their own grown natural vegetables and fruits. I lived for these meetings. There have been no happier moments in my life after losing my husband than the days I spent with my beautiful granddaughter. So when I found out Sasha and Lisa were getting divorced, I almost burst into tears.



It turned out that my son found another one. And Lisa did not want to forgive adultery and filed for divorce. You did the right thing. Even though I'm Alexandra's mother, I totally supported Lisa in this situation. The daughter-in-law packed up Sasha's things and threw the unfaithful husband out the door. So my son moved to my village. And Lisa and I agreed that she would stay in my apartment until she found another place to live.

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For more than six months, I did not bother Lisa and did not rush her to find an apartment. But allowing me to see my granddaughter became less and less frequent. And Alexander could see his daughter in the days when he came to his ex-wife with alimony. My daughter-in-law has been living in my apartment for a year now. I understand she's not planning to move out.



The Peels set up Lisa so that Sasha and I can't see her or little Veronica. The son sends money for the child to his ex-wife on the card. I thought with Alexander just give Lisa this apartment and forget about her. He could save a little on his own house. But Lisa insists on asking for money every month. Is it necessary to pay child support for minor children, if you gave the apartment?



I don't know what to do. Most painful, of course, separation from the granddaughter. I would be very grateful for any advice. My son and I have reached a dead end and cannot find a way out.