The sadness of the mother-in-law without grandchildren, or should not have kicked out the daughter-in-law

Division of property after divorce A rather unpleasant and exhausting process. However, not all couples have to deal with it. After all, very often a man can live in his wife’s apartment or, conversely, a woman in her husband’s apartment. After a divorce, someone will have to find a new home.



Now let's model the situation. The man cheated on his wife and went to another. The woman was left alone with the child in her arms, and the apartment generally belongs to her mother-in-law. What about that? Read about it in our article today.

5 years ago, my son got married and started living in my second apartment, which I inherited from my mother. We always had a normal relationship with our daughter-in-law, and we were lucky in that regard. A year after the wedding, Katyusha gave birth to two girls, and I became a grandmother. But at some point, everything started to fall apart.

Katya has repeatedly told me that she notices some changes in Sasha’s behavior. But somehow I didn't take it seriously. For nothing. It turned out that my son cheated on his wife and after 5 years of living together filed for divorce. There were no scandals, but, of course, it was a shock for Katya.



Sasha packed all his things and moved to his new passion. It turns out that Katya and my granddaughters remained in my apartment. At first, I didn’t bother her, I just got divorced. But I saw that Katya lives there and does not even blow.

I understand that from my side it might be a little tough. However, I believe that an ex-daughter-in-law should not live in my apartment. She also has parents who, by the way, have not hit a finger in the last 5 years. I only saw them at the wedding once.



Yeah, they live in the suburbs. But this does not mean that you can not participate in the life of your daughter and granddaughters! Let them figure it out now. And I want to rent this apartment, there will be at least a penny, besides retirement. So I got my head together and said to Katya, ‘I’m giving you a month to solve the housing problem without haste.’ I'll help you move, you can count on me.”

Katya’s broken relationship was in shock. She honestly admitted that she had not thought of leaving. “Where should we go? The girls here and kindergarten, and a circle ... — said disappointed my daughter-in-law. But I've already decided, so let him understand. She has nothing to do with my apartment.



In general, a month later, Katya and her daughters moved to their parents. And since then, she hasn't let me see my granddaughters! At first she just didn't pick up the phone, and then she put my number on the blacklist altogether. I tried to contact her through my son. But Sasha contacts Katya, only to resolve the issue of alimony. Does he care about his daughter?



I miss Annie and I don’t know what to do. I even thought I'd get tickets to visit them and try to talk to them. How else would I see my granddaughters? After all, it’s not my fault that life has turned out this way. How do I get along with my ex-wife?

Could my mother-in-law have done otherwise? Of course, yes! If she wanted to rent out her apartment, she could offer her ex-daughter-in-law probation. rent out. Some people find this relationship strange, but it is much better than just putting a woman and her granddaughters out of the door. And situations in which relatives help each other for a fee, is not news in our time.



How else do you think the problem could be solved? Is it right for a daughter-in-law to forbid her ex-mother-in-law to see her little granddaughters? Boldly share your opinion in the comments. Wait for you downstairs!