Disappointed by the daughter-in-law who put her grandson in kindergarten, although he did not feel well

Family and household conflicts often unfold against the background of unresolved housing issues. In such difficult situations, only the strongest relationships between relatives have a chance not to collapse at the root. As a rule, in such circumstances are young families and their relatives, who together have to crowd in a small living space. Editorial "Site" I will share a story that only confirms the above.



With all the people who met on my way, I always tried to live peacefully. My character is quiet, calm, so it is difficult for me to defend my opinion. I have never had any unpleasant situations or discontents at work. My life changed after the wedding of my only son.

My husband passed away ten years ago. We have a three-bedroom apartment, so I agreed to let the young ones live with me after the wedding. I thought that with my character I could find a common language with my daughter-in-law.



At first, it was. Olya was quiet, asked about everything, consulted, helped me. But at the same time it was noticeable that she did not do it somehow from the heart, but only out of necessity. So I tried to stay in my room more so as not to embarrass the young.

The son was pleased that we were friends (as he thought). Soon he decided to spend the money set aside to buy his apartment. truck. Even though I was against it, he convinced me. In addition, the daughter-in-law insisted on this, who was already expecting a child at that time. I didn’t like the fact that I had to take a small loan.



When a grandson was born, the loan not only failed to repay, but also had to get into new debts. All because the daughter-in-law wanted the most expensive stroller and bought a lot of baby things that the child does not need. Some still haven't unpacked. I realized that I could not make comments, so I was silent.



The real misunderstandings between us began when the daughter-in-law gave up her grandson. kindergarten 2.5 years old. At the same time, she was not going to work. They say, first a little rest, put yourself in order, like fitness. I was against this plan, and my daughter-in-law told me too much for the first time.



My grandson woke up sick this morning. The daughter-in-law, instead of calling the doctor, began to collect him in kindergarten. You see, she's at 11:00 for practice and then for her manicure. I began to object, but it turned out that I was “involving in my own affairs.” The son supported her, because “the child will go in the car, and there will be in the room, so everything will be fine.”

I was about to go to work, but when I saw what was happening, I offered my daughter-in-law to stay with her grandson. But that's when she ran into nothing. I dressed my grandson and dragged him into the garden. A little later, of course, the teachers called to take the sick baby home. As a result, it was all my fault.



Now the daughter-in-law does not talk to me, the son worries, but does not comment. But he offered me a room in some old dorm. He is even willing to sell his car for that. It also proves how happy and peaceful I am. I never thought my son would abandon his mother so quickly. I don't know what to do now. The apartment we all live in now belongs to both of us and our son in equal parts. I don't want to leave my apartment, but it's hard to live with them.



Whose side do you think the truth is on? What would you advise the heroes of this story? We had the courage to reflect in the comments.

We are convinced that any young family should strive to live apart. This is the only way to maintain personal boundaries and stay in good relations with relatives.