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If you knew your ex was in trouble, would you help him?
Do you want to help your ex when she is in trouble? Do you expect to receive support from your former partner? That’s what I suggest you talk about today!
And before we start discussing the topic in the comments, we suggest reading a story from the life of our reader, Irina. We hope that the experience of our heroine will help you avoid her mistakes and give you the opportunity to analyze your own.
We broke up with Valera 3 years ago. Divorce without quarrels and offenses, by mutual consent. We just sat down in the kitchen one day and talked and found that there was nothing left between us except affection. We decided it was time to let each other go.
They promised not to disturb each other and, until recently, did a great job of keeping their word. No one suffered for anyone, everyone lived their lives and enjoyed their freedom. But once this idyll was interrupted by a phone call.
I knew Valera's number by heart, so even though I removed it from my contact list, I immediately knew who was calling. It turned out that the ex-husband was sick mother and he needed help.
There was no one else to turn to, so I could not refuse to help him, still not a stranger. Every day after work, I took a change from Valera to the bedside of my ex-mother-in-law so that he could go on a night job.
After a couple of weeks, Valera's mother recovered and my help was no longer needed. The ex thanked me and told me to always contact him if any help was needed. We hugged and separated each on his own business.
I didn’t even think about asking for anything in return for my service, but I had a very unpleasant situation last weekend in which I could use male support.
Since I did not have a new man, I called Valera in the hope that he would fulfill his promise and help me deal with the problem. But he just brushed it off, saying he had a lot of his own worries right now.
After that, I decided that I would never help my ex again.
Would you help your ex if she was in trouble? Do not hesitate to share your thoughts on this in the comments!
And before we start discussing the topic in the comments, we suggest reading a story from the life of our reader, Irina. We hope that the experience of our heroine will help you avoid her mistakes and give you the opportunity to analyze your own.
We broke up with Valera 3 years ago. Divorce without quarrels and offenses, by mutual consent. We just sat down in the kitchen one day and talked and found that there was nothing left between us except affection. We decided it was time to let each other go.
They promised not to disturb each other and, until recently, did a great job of keeping their word. No one suffered for anyone, everyone lived their lives and enjoyed their freedom. But once this idyll was interrupted by a phone call.
I knew Valera's number by heart, so even though I removed it from my contact list, I immediately knew who was calling. It turned out that the ex-husband was sick mother and he needed help.
There was no one else to turn to, so I could not refuse to help him, still not a stranger. Every day after work, I took a change from Valera to the bedside of my ex-mother-in-law so that he could go on a night job.
After a couple of weeks, Valera's mother recovered and my help was no longer needed. The ex thanked me and told me to always contact him if any help was needed. We hugged and separated each on his own business.
I didn’t even think about asking for anything in return for my service, but I had a very unpleasant situation last weekend in which I could use male support.
Since I did not have a new man, I called Valera in the hope that he would fulfill his promise and help me deal with the problem. But he just brushed it off, saying he had a lot of his own worries right now.
After that, I decided that I would never help my ex again.
Would you help your ex if she was in trouble? Do not hesitate to share your thoughts on this in the comments!
