If you are able to change your life and get rid of some things, your life not only can change for the better, but also will bring you endless happiness and pleasure.
1. Stop lead with a negative conversation.
Many people, even not knowing cause them irreparable harm, allowing negative emotions to fully control their lives. You should not blindly trust what he says to you your logic and reason. Believe me, you much better and able to do amazing things than we really think.
2. Stop making excuses.
As soon as you can recognize all sorts of excuses and push them out of your life. As practice shows, people limit themselves by trying to find many excuses.
3. Refrain from criticism.
In any case, don't criticize people for their personal opinions, or actions. Moreover, do not allow yourself to criticize those whose opinion is different from yours. So it is not necessary to criticize and various events that didn't meet your expectations. Because all people are different and many people, so many opinions.
4. Let go of your past.
No one will argue with the fact that sometimes it seems unbelievable and impossible. Even more difficult to abandon the past, if you enjoyed it much more than the present. Just accept the fact that everything that you have at the moment is your present.
5. Not prove his innocence.
How many people who are not even looking at the risk of breaking those or any other relationships that are not able to accept another point of view. People cause each other pain and lead to extremes. But ask yourself: is it worth it?
6. Leave behind the need to complain.
Stop complaining about life situations, events that you do not like, people in the end. Yes, sometimes it makes us unhappy, frustrating and depressing. Remember that no one can cause you any harm without your consent. No one can upset you, and different situations are not in themselves capable of causing in you certain feelings.
7. Free yourself from fears.
Under no circumstances do not forget that fear is just an illusion. It does not exist. It is only in your imagination. As soon as you change your internal state, and then everything around me will fall into place.
8. Refrain from habits to impress others.
Stop pretend that you are not the same. Just be who you really are. Enough to wear a regular mask. Just accept yourself as you are and truly love yourself.
9. Let go of the guilt.
Never blame others for what you have or do not have. Don't blame others for your feelings. Do not waste your energy. Learn how to be responsible themselves for voi actions and decisions.
10. Don't resist change.
Life does not stand still. This means that change will come anyway, regardless of your desire. Accept the fact that change is a normal phenomenon, and they are necessary for human development. They change not only our lives but also the lives of people that surround us.
11. Cease to live my life as expected by others.
Many people live a life that is, in fact, they don't belong. They are the opinions of those people who believe that so you will be better. They do as expected of them to relatives, colleagues, friends. Such people usually don't pay any attention to what he shouts at them. People don't know other than to implement and to meet the expectations of others. Over time, people forget that can bring them true happiness, forget even about what they really want from your life. And so it turns out that people lose and forget themselves. Always remember that life is one and live it again is impossible. Live as I want only you, and under any circumstances don't let others distract you from the goal.
12. Do not place labels.
Do not put labels on certain events or people about which you know little, or simply is not available to your understanding. Don't forget to open your mind and soul towards a new way.
13. Release the control.
No matter how hard, refrain from the need to control everything that happens to you. Especially stop to control people – friends, colleagues, little friends do not deprive them of their right to be what they really are.