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Mother-in-law shouted at his son, begging him to leave the “empty” wife, but the daughter-in-law was not confused and decided to answer.
For Maria Alexandrovna, nothing was more important than family. She was very proud of her marriage, which lasted more than 35 years. She also loved her children immensely: the older Lisa and the younger Artem. Both are long-established professionally. And Lisa became the mother of wonderful twins. Now the only thing that bothered Maria Alexandrovna is that her Artem, in fact, childless family, as for 4 years of marriage, the daughter-in-law never got pregnant.
Peels Childless Family Artem and Veronica Artem and Veronica met at the concert. That evening Artem offered to take the girl home, and since then they have not separated. Veronica was a very kind and beautiful girl. Unlike many of her peers, she had a favorite business that consistently brought income. Veronica was a talented artist and gave painting lessons.
Artem’s career was confined to the digital space. He was satisfied and the salary was decent. Six months later, the young lovers moved together, and a year later they married. Maria Alexandrovna was very pleased with such a union. Veronica looked like a decent girl, without bad habits. There should be no problems with grandchildren. That's what Maria Alexandrovna thought.
It took 4 years for a childless family, and Artem and Veronica did not have children. After a year of marriage, Maria Alexandrovna began to actively raise the issue of grandchildren. But the son patiently replied that everything had its time. Then he said that the child should be well prepared. And on the 4th year of marriage, in response to the questions of a restless mother, he only sighed hard.
At some point, Maria Alexandrovna began to suspect that it was all about Veronica. She can't get pregnant, so her son still has no heir! Then what's the point of this marriage? Does Artem not understand that his life with this “dummy” will lead nowhere?
Once Maria Alexandrovna could not stand it and went home to her son. He worked at home, so he's always there. When Artem opened the door, Maria Alexandrovna flew into the apartment and began to speak quickly:
- Tema, I'll tell you, and you'll think about it later. It's very, very important. I get it, you don't have to explain it to me. That Veronica has trouble conceiving is understandable. This happens even if there are no bad habits. Maybe there's something I don't know about. Well, I love her very much, but you need a normal wife. The one who can give birth and give you a full family.
Peels Artem was a bit taken aback by such pressure from his mother who had just entered.
- I don't get it, do you want me to divorce Nika?
- Yes, nodded Maria Alexandrovna. - Because you don't need her. What kind of man would need an empty wife? What can she give you?
- Mom, please. I feel good with her, Artem only managed to insert, but Maria Alexandrovna did not stop it.
- No, you listen to me. A year, 5 years, 10 and so on. And why all this, even if there is no one to raise? You need a baby, you want kids. If Veronica can't give it to you, it's best to finish it early. I'm not thinking about myself! I just don't want you to regret and cry for the rest of your life.
From another room, Veronica herself appeared. Maria Alexandrovna at first hesitated, but then continued:
- I hope you make the right decision. I'll go.
- No, Maria Alexandrovna, wait, said Veronica. - Let me say something.
The last thing Maria Alexandrovna wanted now was to listen to the excuses of her unsuccessful daughter-in-law. But you can't help it, she couldn't just run away.
- I have no idea why you think I can’t have children, Veronica continued. Whatever happens to me, to my body, is not your business. As well as the question of whether to have children with Artem or not. This decision will take place without you. But I can be glad I'm okay. So, Artem, you don't have to pack your bags. But you, Maria Alexandrovna, I do not want to see you in my house. Goodbye.
With these words, Veronica walked past her mother-in-law and opened the front door, pointing to the exit.
Peels' son's answer - How are you?
- Just like you and me.
- Artem?!
- Mom, I’ll walk you out, he took off his jacket and went out with Maria Alexandrovna. - Why would you do that?
- I was only concerned about your family's future.
- This is not your family, Mother, said Artem. And Veronica's right, it's none of your business.
- But don't you want a son or a daughter?
- I don't want anyone yet. Not me, not Veronica. Can you understand that or not? I've talked about it so many times. When the time comes, there will be children. That's it. And you flew in and started insulting my wife for nothing. You know what? Even if she had a problem with it, I would never leave her! Because women are not loved for giving birth. Here we go.
After that, Artem said goodbye to his mother and returned home. Maria Alexandrovna did not know how to react to what was happening. But she knew it was best not to call the kids this week. Let them cool down. You see, they're all excited. What is she? Nothing. Do you have to respond to your mother’s natural anxiety? She didn't mean anything like that. Artem wants to live with his wife, for God's sake! What's that got to do with her?
So Maria Alexandrovna went to her home to her beloved husband. And then she'll call Lisa and her grandchildren. She'll definitely be nicer to you.
Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? Unfortunately, not all parents understand that the family of their son or daughter is a separate social unit. They seek to help and direct the life of an adult child in the right direction, while not taking into account his desire. In addition, this directly concerns the partner of the child. This could put their relationship at risk. Always remember that personal life is personal life. You should only intervene when it is necessary.
Peels Childless Family Artem and Veronica Artem and Veronica met at the concert. That evening Artem offered to take the girl home, and since then they have not separated. Veronica was a very kind and beautiful girl. Unlike many of her peers, she had a favorite business that consistently brought income. Veronica was a talented artist and gave painting lessons.
Artem’s career was confined to the digital space. He was satisfied and the salary was decent. Six months later, the young lovers moved together, and a year later they married. Maria Alexandrovna was very pleased with such a union. Veronica looked like a decent girl, without bad habits. There should be no problems with grandchildren. That's what Maria Alexandrovna thought.
It took 4 years for a childless family, and Artem and Veronica did not have children. After a year of marriage, Maria Alexandrovna began to actively raise the issue of grandchildren. But the son patiently replied that everything had its time. Then he said that the child should be well prepared. And on the 4th year of marriage, in response to the questions of a restless mother, he only sighed hard.
At some point, Maria Alexandrovna began to suspect that it was all about Veronica. She can't get pregnant, so her son still has no heir! Then what's the point of this marriage? Does Artem not understand that his life with this “dummy” will lead nowhere?
Once Maria Alexandrovna could not stand it and went home to her son. He worked at home, so he's always there. When Artem opened the door, Maria Alexandrovna flew into the apartment and began to speak quickly:
- Tema, I'll tell you, and you'll think about it later. It's very, very important. I get it, you don't have to explain it to me. That Veronica has trouble conceiving is understandable. This happens even if there are no bad habits. Maybe there's something I don't know about. Well, I love her very much, but you need a normal wife. The one who can give birth and give you a full family.
Peels Artem was a bit taken aback by such pressure from his mother who had just entered.
- I don't get it, do you want me to divorce Nika?
- Yes, nodded Maria Alexandrovna. - Because you don't need her. What kind of man would need an empty wife? What can she give you?
- Mom, please. I feel good with her, Artem only managed to insert, but Maria Alexandrovna did not stop it.
- No, you listen to me. A year, 5 years, 10 and so on. And why all this, even if there is no one to raise? You need a baby, you want kids. If Veronica can't give it to you, it's best to finish it early. I'm not thinking about myself! I just don't want you to regret and cry for the rest of your life.
From another room, Veronica herself appeared. Maria Alexandrovna at first hesitated, but then continued:
- I hope you make the right decision. I'll go.
- No, Maria Alexandrovna, wait, said Veronica. - Let me say something.
The last thing Maria Alexandrovna wanted now was to listen to the excuses of her unsuccessful daughter-in-law. But you can't help it, she couldn't just run away.
- I have no idea why you think I can’t have children, Veronica continued. Whatever happens to me, to my body, is not your business. As well as the question of whether to have children with Artem or not. This decision will take place without you. But I can be glad I'm okay. So, Artem, you don't have to pack your bags. But you, Maria Alexandrovna, I do not want to see you in my house. Goodbye.
With these words, Veronica walked past her mother-in-law and opened the front door, pointing to the exit.
Peels' son's answer - How are you?
- Just like you and me.
- Artem?!
- Mom, I’ll walk you out, he took off his jacket and went out with Maria Alexandrovna. - Why would you do that?
- I was only concerned about your family's future.
- This is not your family, Mother, said Artem. And Veronica's right, it's none of your business.
- But don't you want a son or a daughter?
- I don't want anyone yet. Not me, not Veronica. Can you understand that or not? I've talked about it so many times. When the time comes, there will be children. That's it. And you flew in and started insulting my wife for nothing. You know what? Even if she had a problem with it, I would never leave her! Because women are not loved for giving birth. Here we go.
After that, Artem said goodbye to his mother and returned home. Maria Alexandrovna did not know how to react to what was happening. But she knew it was best not to call the kids this week. Let them cool down. You see, they're all excited. What is she? Nothing. Do you have to respond to your mother’s natural anxiety? She didn't mean anything like that. Artem wants to live with his wife, for God's sake! What's that got to do with her?
So Maria Alexandrovna went to her home to her beloved husband. And then she'll call Lisa and her grandchildren. She'll definitely be nicer to you.
Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? Unfortunately, not all parents understand that the family of their son or daughter is a separate social unit. They seek to help and direct the life of an adult child in the right direction, while not taking into account his desire. In addition, this directly concerns the partner of the child. This could put their relationship at risk. Always remember that personal life is personal life. You should only intervene when it is necessary.
Even if a woman looks great, there are habits that give her age worse than wrinkles.
When my mother's sister found out that I became the owner of two apartments, immediately rushed to visit, the conversation did not take long.