How to behave mother-in-law, if the daughter-in-law is always harassing and accusing

Sometimes. quarrel Makes people enemies. And although everyone knows that both people are to blame for any misunderstanding, this does not prevent them from hating each other. But what if the apple of discord remains unknown, and at stake is communication with his own grandson?



Our heroine today was in a very difficult situation. You may find her story familiar. So you can give her advice and help her understand the problem. She really needs it!

“My life has not been the best.” At the age of 65, I live alone, and for the last 7 years my only joy was my grandson. A family man I can't see or communicate with anymore. My daughter-in-law won't let me. Of course, I can’t say that I was the perfect mother-in-law. I wanted to resolve any conflict peacefully.

And now I don't even know what's going on. My son is 40 years old and he stopped talking to me. It's the wife and her whims. Sometimes I call my son’s phone to talk to my grandson for a minute. But his voice sounds different. It's like he's afraid to say he loves me.



It’s no surprise that his mother is always pushing him. He talks about me like I'm sick and shouldn't talk to me. And then I have to make excuses to my grandson to prove my normality. This is crazy...

Sometimes I get to see my grandson. We're good together, we don't even talk about his mother. Why would I muddy my son's wife even if she did the same thing? It's stupid. I know my grandson will grow up and understand. In the meantime, I get every chance to see him.



We try not to cross paths with our daughter-in-law once again. But recently, the matchmaker invited me to her birthday party. To be honest, I was very surprised and accepted the invitation. Of course, my son's wife was there. Right at the table, she started bullying me about how bad a mother and grandmother I was.



Hearing that I am selfish and think only of myself, I could not stand it, got up and left. What's the point of starting another fight? Everyone at the table didn't care, even my son didn't say anything! I think this is the last straw. My daughter-in-law thought that by slandering me in front of everyone, she would show her strength. But in my eyes it fell below the plinth.

I don’t understand how my son tolerates this. I know that my daughter-in-law is always on his phone and watching me write to him. I've been on her contact list for a long time. I remember one day, on behalf of my son, she wrote me a lot of nasty things. It was immediately clear that it was her doing. What does she want?



Apart from my son and grandson, I have no one else. I don't know what to do. No matter how hard I try, the daughter-in-law doesn't want to make contact. I think it's all about the housing issue. My son’s wife wanted me to give them my apartment and go to the village. But there are absolutely no conditions for life! Of course I refused. This game has been going on ever since. Is there a chance to fix it? ?

Sometimes it is very difficult to establish contact with a person who does not go to dialogue. Especially if he doesn’t behave in a decent way. It seems to us that in this situation the most important thing is to understand the position of the son and ask him for help. Who knows, maybe he is. Become hostage to the situation He's just afraid to do anything. Anyway, the heroine of today's story should not give up. Of course, you cannot re-educate an adult. But you can always find a special approach to it.



Do you know what it really is? quarrel? If so, you can give a woman some good advice. We look forward to your comments and thank you for staying with us!