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I forbid my mother-in-law to hang out with men at 55, she has to help me with my grandchildren.
Right to privacy Everyone has one, my editorial board is sure. We recently received a letter that caused a lot of discussion. A young woman shares her experiences, it can be seen that it is difficult for her, but we are in no hurry to console the new mother. Perhaps your comment under this article will open Angelina’s eyes and shed light on the situation. We already know that truth is born among the comments.
Right to privacy: Hello, my name is Angelina. I am only 23 years old, but I have already experienced the joy of motherhood. I had a daughter three months ago. I am married and have a wonderful husband. Vladimir makes good money, he is a programmer. Today’s fashionable profession makes me feel free financially. How nice it is to spend baby diapers without worrying about having enough money tomorrow! Motherhood, of course, is wonderful. I love spending time with the baby, walking with her. I mean, with my daughter, I do everything. I often wear it in a sling around the apartment, leaving it alone in the crib for a short time. I dedicated myself to our little angel.
The only thing that bothers me is the behavior of Vladimir’s mother. We don’t have a home yet, so we all live together. Me, our little Claudia, my husband Vova and my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law's name is Anna Stanislavovna. Oh, what a woman! She's 55. Anna Stanislavovna went through a lot in her life, because she raised her son alone. Life so developed that all the cares for the education of Vova fell on her fragile shoulders. She worked hard, tried to do everything she could for my husband. This is a kind, responsive person, she is completely conflictless, smiling, often jokes. I can’t hide that when I married Vova, I was proud to have such a mother-in-law. Not a quarrelsome old lady, but a real girlfriend!
The changes in the behavior of Anna Stanislavovna began to occur when I became pregnant. The bigger my stomach became, the more startling things I began to notice. For example, a mother-in-law drinks tea in the kitchen, looks out the window. She rolls her eyes and says, Angelina, you will soon become a mother! What a joy. I wish I had a baby too, from a loved one. I was surprised by her dreams out loud. I was sure my mother-in-law had no one. She was always missing at work, running to a fitness club, visiting beauty salons. Anna Stanislavovna does a lot around the house, thanks to this we have cleanliness and order. How's she doing? Perhaps the second mother has several clones that help her in all her worries.
When my daughter was born, of course, I counted on the help of my mother-in-law. But she's gone abruptly! More and more Anna Stanislavovna began to disappear. Earlier she reported that she was visiting a friend. Now she is mysteriously silent, makes up, dresses up, spins in front of the mirror for a broken hour, accompanied by the heartbreaking cry of her granddaughter. I have my daughter alone, my mother-in-law is not helping me. I'm not asking her. My mother-in-law always looks at me like a wolf. He glances at me and immediately leaves the house.
Peels Should 55-year-old mother-in-law hang out on dates I crept into the idea that Vova's mother found some man and took to improve her personal life. I chose the most inopportune moment for this! She's had so much time for it before. Why now? Now that I am a nursing mother, I also want to run off to a beauty salon, so as not to lose the attractiveness for my husband. I also want to go to fitness, but there is no way, no one to leave the baby with. I'm just going to ask Anna Stanislavovna for something, and her trail is already frozen. How selfish that is! I think at 55 you should be thinking about your grandchildren, not trying to jump into the last carriage. Youth is gone, if it was not possible to get married earlier, to create a strong family, why now spend energy on this? After all, the chance that everything will turn out well is negligible. All in good time. Tell me how to convince your mother-in-law not to do stupid things, how to reach her.
Do you think a young mother has the right to tell her mother-in-law how to build her personal life? Is it right for a mother-in-law who has no desire to waste time on her tiny granddaughter? Perhaps your family has had experience in dealing with such a situation without conflict. We will be grateful for any of your comments, perhaps your advice will be the salvation for the family.
We wish you good health and good mood! Thank you for staying with us.
Right to privacy: Hello, my name is Angelina. I am only 23 years old, but I have already experienced the joy of motherhood. I had a daughter three months ago. I am married and have a wonderful husband. Vladimir makes good money, he is a programmer. Today’s fashionable profession makes me feel free financially. How nice it is to spend baby diapers without worrying about having enough money tomorrow! Motherhood, of course, is wonderful. I love spending time with the baby, walking with her. I mean, with my daughter, I do everything. I often wear it in a sling around the apartment, leaving it alone in the crib for a short time. I dedicated myself to our little angel.
The only thing that bothers me is the behavior of Vladimir’s mother. We don’t have a home yet, so we all live together. Me, our little Claudia, my husband Vova and my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law's name is Anna Stanislavovna. Oh, what a woman! She's 55. Anna Stanislavovna went through a lot in her life, because she raised her son alone. Life so developed that all the cares for the education of Vova fell on her fragile shoulders. She worked hard, tried to do everything she could for my husband. This is a kind, responsive person, she is completely conflictless, smiling, often jokes. I can’t hide that when I married Vova, I was proud to have such a mother-in-law. Not a quarrelsome old lady, but a real girlfriend!
The changes in the behavior of Anna Stanislavovna began to occur when I became pregnant. The bigger my stomach became, the more startling things I began to notice. For example, a mother-in-law drinks tea in the kitchen, looks out the window. She rolls her eyes and says, Angelina, you will soon become a mother! What a joy. I wish I had a baby too, from a loved one. I was surprised by her dreams out loud. I was sure my mother-in-law had no one. She was always missing at work, running to a fitness club, visiting beauty salons. Anna Stanislavovna does a lot around the house, thanks to this we have cleanliness and order. How's she doing? Perhaps the second mother has several clones that help her in all her worries.
When my daughter was born, of course, I counted on the help of my mother-in-law. But she's gone abruptly! More and more Anna Stanislavovna began to disappear. Earlier she reported that she was visiting a friend. Now she is mysteriously silent, makes up, dresses up, spins in front of the mirror for a broken hour, accompanied by the heartbreaking cry of her granddaughter. I have my daughter alone, my mother-in-law is not helping me. I'm not asking her. My mother-in-law always looks at me like a wolf. He glances at me and immediately leaves the house.
Peels Should 55-year-old mother-in-law hang out on dates I crept into the idea that Vova's mother found some man and took to improve her personal life. I chose the most inopportune moment for this! She's had so much time for it before. Why now? Now that I am a nursing mother, I also want to run off to a beauty salon, so as not to lose the attractiveness for my husband. I also want to go to fitness, but there is no way, no one to leave the baby with. I'm just going to ask Anna Stanislavovna for something, and her trail is already frozen. How selfish that is! I think at 55 you should be thinking about your grandchildren, not trying to jump into the last carriage. Youth is gone, if it was not possible to get married earlier, to create a strong family, why now spend energy on this? After all, the chance that everything will turn out well is negligible. All in good time. Tell me how to convince your mother-in-law not to do stupid things, how to reach her.
Do you think a young mother has the right to tell her mother-in-law how to build her personal life? Is it right for a mother-in-law who has no desire to waste time on her tiny granddaughter? Perhaps your family has had experience in dealing with such a situation without conflict. We will be grateful for any of your comments, perhaps your advice will be the salvation for the family.
We wish you good health and good mood! Thank you for staying with us.
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