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How to understand that a person is jealous and does bad things behind his back, pretending to be close
How do you find out if there is a bad person among your loved ones? Why should you be able to filter your surroundings and avoid toxic people? That’s what I suggest you talk about today!
A person who really cares about you will never impose guilt on you for any action or thought. For some it seems obvious, and for some it can be a real discovery.
We often see criticism as something that makes us feel better. And we take bitter words about how insignificant we are, like healing nectar, when in fact it can be a real poison that kills love and warmth in a relationship.
A loving person will never avoid your problems. He will not say, “Your life is up to you to decide what to do with it.” At the very least, he will ask how he can help in this situation.
If your close friend or partner remains indifferent when you need his support, you should think about whether it is time to say goodbye to this person.
Another telling factor in how sincere a person is around is their habit of sharing news. If you have to constantly discuss some problems and life failures, most likely, the interlocutor keeps you as an urn for his negative emotions, no more.
There is even Jewish wisdom on the subject. He says, “No one is trustworthy who is willing to share his misfortunes with you, but hides his joys for another.”
A person worthy of your trust will trust you. He will be happy to share the good news with you and celebrate both his own and your victories. And, as a rule, such people can be counted on the fingers of one hand.
It often happens that people lose touch with each other when one goes to a new stage of his life, and the other remains in the usual conditions for him.
When one person develops and strives for more, and the other just stands still, there is a huge chasm between them. In the place of love and mutual understanding, envy and resentment appear, and in the place of mutual help - a sense of injustice.
Of course, a wise man will not tell everyone about his successes. Unfortunately, in our world it is very difficult to live such naive simpletons who have a soul wide open. So do not reproach someone with hypocrisy if he keeps his achievements secret. No wonder they say that happiness loves silence.
What do you think about that? Have you ever found a scoundrel in your environment? We would be grateful if you would share your thoughts on this topic in the comments!
A person who really cares about you will never impose guilt on you for any action or thought. For some it seems obvious, and for some it can be a real discovery.
We often see criticism as something that makes us feel better. And we take bitter words about how insignificant we are, like healing nectar, when in fact it can be a real poison that kills love and warmth in a relationship.
A loving person will never avoid your problems. He will not say, “Your life is up to you to decide what to do with it.” At the very least, he will ask how he can help in this situation.
If your close friend or partner remains indifferent when you need his support, you should think about whether it is time to say goodbye to this person.
Another telling factor in how sincere a person is around is their habit of sharing news. If you have to constantly discuss some problems and life failures, most likely, the interlocutor keeps you as an urn for his negative emotions, no more.
There is even Jewish wisdom on the subject. He says, “No one is trustworthy who is willing to share his misfortunes with you, but hides his joys for another.”
A person worthy of your trust will trust you. He will be happy to share the good news with you and celebrate both his own and your victories. And, as a rule, such people can be counted on the fingers of one hand.
It often happens that people lose touch with each other when one goes to a new stage of his life, and the other remains in the usual conditions for him.
When one person develops and strives for more, and the other just stands still, there is a huge chasm between them. In the place of love and mutual understanding, envy and resentment appear, and in the place of mutual help - a sense of injustice.
Of course, a wise man will not tell everyone about his successes. Unfortunately, in our world it is very difficult to live such naive simpletons who have a soul wide open. So do not reproach someone with hypocrisy if he keeps his achievements secret. No wonder they say that happiness loves silence.
What do you think about that? Have you ever found a scoundrel in your environment? We would be grateful if you would share your thoughts on this topic in the comments!
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