Why Men Need to Provide for Women

The trend of recent years is that many couples do not enjoy their relationship. Instead of just enjoying each other and life in general, people find out who is responsible for what, who earns how much, who takes a mortgage, who sits with a child, where justice is... Men call women fools, and they in turn shout about the mysterious disappearance of real men.





Well-known psychologist Oleg Silavsky is sure that a man is obliged to provide for a woman, otherwise he simply degrades. Nature has long and correctly defined role of man and woman in the familyFailure to do so leads to personal collapse. Editorial "Site" It will tell you why a man needs a woman who will waste his money.

The world has changed: people live in cozy houses, do not cut down the forest, kill mammoths. But the archetypal nature of man remains the same. If people don’t follow it, then problems begin – first psychological, then everyone else.

Oleg Silavsky says: In general, in the modern world there is a clear distortion of the roles of men and women, it is like giving a drink. It hurts people to break away from their true nature, do what they want. Men forget their roles and functions, women lose theirs.”





This is why we are increasingly seeing people with depression and midlife crisis. It happens that everything seems to be good for a man or a woman, but they just burn out in front of their eyes: leave the family, quit their job, start drinking. Coach Oleg Silavsky will be assured that everything is because we confuse our roles.

For example, a man to achieve success simply needs to fully support a woman. Otherwise, he will not succeed, lose the meaning of life and may even become impotent. Nature has prepared many punishments.



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“For a man it is the destruction of business, the loss of meaning in life, depression, alcoholism, impotence. Options prepared by nature, mass. In women, a violation of their nature and the right spiritual path lead to loss of beauty, weight gain, female cancer. At first it all seems fun, especially at a young age. We have not yet caught up with these consequences ..., says the psychologist.



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“Therefore, those people who today make choices against their true nature can first enjoy, enjoy, and enjoy. They feel that they have got rid of unnecessary obligations: to provide for a woman, to support a family or (for a woman) to serve a man, to support a hearth, to raise children.

But a man can enjoy a year, two, three, and in five it will catch up with him. And in eight it will catch up with him so much that he won't think much. I have been practicing for twenty years and have seen so many fates! warns Oleg Silavsky.



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According to the psychologist, every man must have a case. No, not just a profession, but a matter that is a priority: business, creativity, politics. A man also needs a woman to realize his own potential. A woman who would waste all his money. Otherwise, a man will simply go from case to case, but not show himself as a breadwinner.



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Says Siljavski: “Women waste money, that’s obvious. Only a man has to make money first. This has always been the case in traditional cultures. For example, in the East still preserved such a phenomenon as kalym. And that's right, I'll tell you. That's very right. Because if you can't pay 40 sheep, you can't trust a woman.



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“The ideal family is one in which the woman does not know where the money is coming from and the man does not know where it is going. In terms of money, this is an excellent example of a couple. Women are one of the best sources of investment for men. Provided, of course, that she is a real woman. He puts something into her all the time, and she always succeeds. If you invested something, the children turned out, another time invested, the house turned out.”



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Of course, the roles are confused not only now, this process began a long time ago. There were many wars, natural disasters. As a result, our women were left with no one. Well, if there was one man in the village after the war. Women are used to doing everything themselves. After that, the following generations are brought up in a distorted field: boys in the infantile female key, and girls like crowd horses.



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Men need to understand their role, but women should not forget theirs. First you need to be a woman, and then, if you can attract and retain a man, you need to create a family, it will come to motherhood. And if she's bad as a woman, she won't be a good mother. After all, femininity is primarily beauty and self-confidence.



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A woman can also have her own occupation and build a business, but only one where beauty reigns or care for people - modeling, restaurant business, private clinics, charity. But the main thing is to be feminine, caring and gentle to support and inspire your man.

It would be great for women and men to stick to their roles. But life is not so simple, and often due to circumstances, you have to perform completely unnecessary duties, thereby losing energy. But everyone has the right to choose their own path, the main thing is to be happy.

Earlier we also talked about the secret power of women’s energy.

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