MAN - Gives, and women - to take?

Is it always, and in all that happen? Are there any differences in the terms of energy between man and woman? Who is this woman, and how is it different from men? Answers to these questions can be found in our article.

Lord God, he did not just created men and women, and they differ among themselves. Besides the fact that each has its own features, and energy moves us in different ways.

The Vedas say that each person has a mental 7 energy centers, the most active, often called chakras. In fact, more of them, but the main - 7. We arranged so that both men and women in these energy centers, moving differently. Someone clockwise someone counterclockwise. What gives chakra activity or passivity. And it turns out that we fully complement each other.

We'll start from the bottom. The lowest chakra - muladhara. It is responsible for the survival and offspring, and it is arranged in such a way that a man this chakra is activated, and the woman is passive. That is, a man gives energy, and the woman accepts it.

This means that the men's function - to provide protection. Protection for the survival of women. To provide basic security. Our task - to focus on their responsibilities. Responsibilities of women in this place - to learn to accept. Most of us with this problem. As planned, we should fully trust the man, and put him - that he would take care of us. As for us, many of us, there are all sorts of generic scripts, and other injuries. Very often we do not give a man to care about us at all. Very often women say - "Oh, I would like a strong arm." But in practice it is so scary to trust that it is easier to do everything itself.

If a woman begins to take care of the survival of itself, such as herself and her children, the chakra starts to work on man's type, it begins to be active. If a woman in this case there are a husband, he has no choice, and his chakra becomes passive. That is, he begins to take, and a woman to give. And this situation is very difficult to reverse later.

Because women to this situation once change, it is necessary to abandon this, as if to jump without a parachute from a high mountain. We must understand that if you have a husband, or a young man, but you would prefer to take care of their security on their own, you hereby assume the function of the male, and it is detrimental and your femininity and masculinity.

Then there is a second chakra - swadhisthana. It is responsible for pleasure and desire, and works in a different way. In women, it is an active and passive men. That is, we give, and the men take.

Even in the Vedas say that a man is to enjoy, and the woman is the one through which to enjoy. This suggests that our task as women is to create a man comfortable and cozy world. Very often women are protesting against this point, they say - like so, why should we serve them why we need to enjoy them and to fulfill all desires? What is the worldly injustice? In fact, everything here is true. Because of the 7 chakras - 3 active women, active in 3 men and 1, the upper works the same for all. Therefore, in this no injustice is simply the separation of roles. It is important to understand that the man is also something to give, and our task to give him pleasure and to fulfill his wishes - and then there is not so bad.

This includes any pleasure, enjoying the food, the order in the house. That is the ideal woman for a man is to create a world in which he can easily find it to be comfortable, and its main desire will be satisfied. And not just satisfied, and he will suffer from this kind of pleasure. In it there is a significant difference.

Here is a simple example. My husband and I have a favorite restaurant, and there are very tasty cooked. That is, at the same prices - stunning kitchen, where even the french fries - amazing. And just yesterday we arrived, but it was closed. But the restaurant was opened nearby, and we decided to go with him. It turned out that there are the same price, and the food is delicious, but it is not some special highlights, on the soul. So, you ate like a tasty, but this pleasure is not received.

The same family. Can a man cook some simple fried potatoes or scrambled eggs in the morning, with this attitude - "eat and leave me alone." And you can make it so that every time he having breakfast, lunch or dinner to receive pleasure.

Next we come to the third chakra - Manipura. This money, vitality, achievement. It is active in men and accordingly is passive in women. That is, a man gives a woman. The woman - takes. And here again the problem of women.

We often hear that "I can not take money from the man." Or, "I am ashamed to ask her husband's money for some jacket." Typically, this often occurs when a woman worked herself provided, and then got married, she went on maternity leave. And it turns out it does not work, wants to buy something, and her husband to ask a shame. And here in this place is very serious conflict. Because if a woman refuses to take the money and vitality, the man is no longer a given and becomes slightly different position, or has it become less. That is one reason why men earn a little more, and that she did not ask. The woman said that she does not need anything, "I do not need boots, I have not endured skatesĀ».

If a woman has this attitude to himself, to do with money and the attitude of the man, the man does not earn a lot, because he is just not necessary. Men by nature are very ascetic. You've probably seen bachelor apartments, they all need a little something. There's a bed, a stove, a frying pan, fried eggs for breakfast and everything. And do not need anything.

Sometimes in this situation a man ceases to earn and become gigolo. Or is that which will encourage him to the achievements of their desires. Therefore, it is our duty as women learn to take money from men, gifts, take some achievements and feats that they do in the name of us.

There is another option when the woman suddenly starts to make a lot. She begins to think that it is the most important goal in life - to support his family, to feed my family, "this namby-pamby do not" and so on. That is, if a woman takes the strongly active in this regard, that a man has no choice. The woman took everything. He has only to take. Then he gets home, henpecked and stuff. And it is the responsibility of women - that have undertaken not his.

Next anahata- heart chakra. It is responsible for love and sympathy. This women's chakra. That is, women have to give and take a man. Instead it turns uncomfortable.

Most of you must have been such a fan that meets all your whims, that everything that you want - and you flowers, and this, and that's that. And in the mouth it looks, and that's just kind of love, and in the evening met and escorted the morning. But you look at him and you know, a good person, a good guy, but love can not. There is nothing I love it. Just because a man took over the activity of this chakra, this center. He began to give, and a woman has no other options. She can not love. And love - this is our all female.

If a woman can not love, realized in this place, then it is very difficult. And so such relationships often do not add up. So it's just a pretty picture - "I want my husband to me romantically wooed, this is done, and this one did and that's how I loved and that loved that way." If you have so happened, then you would not enjoy it at all actually.

Therefore rejoice, if your men do not you take responsibility for the center and let you realized it. Then you can fully open it, do some pleasant surprises to your loved and somehow spoiled him.

This does not mean that all his life he will only receive and not to give anything in return. Most likely, it will also be for you to do something, but it will not be at the center. It will, for example, at the level of the third chakra - that is, he will make some gifts, or first - somehow begin to take care of you in terms of living space, or even some basic things.

Therefore, do not expect from a man of unearthly romance and fulfill your whims, because it is our responsibility - to meet the desires, to give pleasure and love. It is the responsibility of women. The man you repay something else. Gifts and sense of security.

The fifth chakra visuddha - communication, self-expression. Man gives - a woman takes. Man - is active.

A man in your life is very important to express yourself, be realized. For women, the basic realization - it is a family. Implementation outside the family is secondary. If a woman has learned to give love the fourth center, this energy rises above a man, and he does not want to just make money, not just to provide a basic level of violence. He already wants to leave his mark in history, some legacy. He wants something to improve the world - at this level, men often begin to do great things, global exploits.

And all these deeds are done in the name of women. Our task at this point - to make. Joy and love. As the Princess and Queen take the honors from the fighting knights. To them it was for someone to make the crusades, defend the motherland, or to save the planet from environmental disaster.

So if you want your man is not just survived and worked, and actually implemented and change the world - learn to love it. The energy of your love can raise it up to the fifth energy center.

In addition, it is also the center of communication, public relations. For example, well if family friends - a friend of her husband. Did not you bring him into their company and force to communicate with your friends. And it puts you in a certain circle, you create some kind of communication and to build links between the families.

The sixth chakra ajna - clairvoyance. Woman gives - a man takes.

Theoretically, every wife should be the principal assistant of her husband. And its main aid is not to do what he does not like. And give him something that he is not in the power of nature. Clairvoyance. Let's say a woman always gives very good advice to her husband. She has an intuition, and it often feels and says - "something that I do not like the uncle with whom you want to sign a contract." Man in perfect situtsaii listens to her feelings. If it lacks significance in its three centers - it is implemented as head of the family, as the breadwinner and he has a certain mission - it is easy to take note of the recommendations of his wife.

Women often feel some things and she said - "Look, I'm not like this man, let's not work with it, or I feel, good is not going to end." It takes some time - and the way it is.

I have so often happens - when people do not like me, though apparent reason for it is not. I had not told her husband. And then there is the situation - and the man is not disclosed to the best side.

I realized that my task - to protect her husband. And I began to talk to him. First, he waved. But after a couple of serious situations - I began to ask my opinion about people. Especially on the partnership and joint business with anyone.

We are soul
The seventh chakra is working all the same - it is our relationship with God. It does not matter, we are men or women. First of all, we - the soul, and the soul has no differences. Differences between men and women are important here on Earth, in order to fulfill the mission for which we were born. Membership gives us a framework that we can already fill in the way we like it. You could say that giving us a woman's body, the Lord has narrowed the circle throwing and more clearly outlined the role that we are here to play.

What have you got?
The largest imbalances usually have the four lower chakras. They create the basis for harmony at the highest levels. Therefore, we have a big challenge in life - learn to accept from a man on the first and third chakra. And besides - learn to give respect to the second and fourth.

Olga Valyaeva


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