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An affair with a daughter-in-law that seemed too old and tired
Stories about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Take a separate page in the life of the editorial board "Site". Sometimes they surprise and sometimes make you think. That’s why we share the stories of our other readers. Today you will have another meal for thought. We look forward to your response!
About the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law “I am 55 years old, behind the divorce and two adult children.” My daughter got married and gave birth to two beautiful children. Her husband is just beautiful: a hard worker, helps around the house and loves children with all his heart. So I don’t worry about my daughter, I see that she is doing well. Things are worse with my son.
He always had problems in his relationship. I couldn’t find anyone, and the girls weren’t the best. One day, it took him a whole year to “step back” after an unsuccessful breakup and start a new relationship. My son was in no hurry to introduce me to his wife. And that alerted me.
“I’ll bring her to visit when I’m sure we’re serious,” my son kept repeating. Of course, it seemed strange to me. But I didn't push him and just waited. As it turned out, all this seemed somehow abnormal.
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One day my son said he invited a girl to our house. He immediately warned that she was a little older than he was. However, he assured that externally it does not even feel. I did not pay attention to it, because the main thing is that my son was happy. When I first saw her, I was shocked.
The lady looked very mature and somehow tired. And she was dressed quite simply. During the conversation, it turned out that she divorced twice and has three children. Think of it!
Words cannot express how upset I am. I couldn't even talk to her. This is not the kind of girl I wanted to see as my son’s future wife. Inadvertently, I hinted to her that I was disappointed with my son’s choice. The woman was offended and said that three children would not prevent her from giving me a grandson. I felt unwell and asked her to leave.
I don't know how to explain to my son that I don't need such a daughter-in-law. Of course, I want my child to be happy. But what is his future with the divorcee and her three children? How will he provide for them all and what will happen when he has children of his own?
Let her live in a civil marriage for a while. Feelings will cool, and they will disperse. But I will never agree to the official painting in the registry office and the wedding. It's unthinkable! That woman immediately disliked me. I can't imagine what a daughter-in-law she would be to me.
We want this story to be an example of how it shouldn’t be. This is not about choosing a son, but about his mother’s behavior. Parents want only the best for their children. But this should not come at their expense. Whatever your son's companion, It must be respected and accepted. the way she is.
Who do you think is right about this story? You may have faced a similar situation in your life. It will be great if you share your experience in the comments!
About the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law “I am 55 years old, behind the divorce and two adult children.” My daughter got married and gave birth to two beautiful children. Her husband is just beautiful: a hard worker, helps around the house and loves children with all his heart. So I don’t worry about my daughter, I see that she is doing well. Things are worse with my son.
He always had problems in his relationship. I couldn’t find anyone, and the girls weren’t the best. One day, it took him a whole year to “step back” after an unsuccessful breakup and start a new relationship. My son was in no hurry to introduce me to his wife. And that alerted me.
“I’ll bring her to visit when I’m sure we’re serious,” my son kept repeating. Of course, it seemed strange to me. But I didn't push him and just waited. As it turned out, all this seemed somehow abnormal.
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One day my son said he invited a girl to our house. He immediately warned that she was a little older than he was. However, he assured that externally it does not even feel. I did not pay attention to it, because the main thing is that my son was happy. When I first saw her, I was shocked.
The lady looked very mature and somehow tired. And she was dressed quite simply. During the conversation, it turned out that she divorced twice and has three children. Think of it!
Words cannot express how upset I am. I couldn't even talk to her. This is not the kind of girl I wanted to see as my son’s future wife. Inadvertently, I hinted to her that I was disappointed with my son’s choice. The woman was offended and said that three children would not prevent her from giving me a grandson. I felt unwell and asked her to leave.
I don't know how to explain to my son that I don't need such a daughter-in-law. Of course, I want my child to be happy. But what is his future with the divorcee and her three children? How will he provide for them all and what will happen when he has children of his own?
Let her live in a civil marriage for a while. Feelings will cool, and they will disperse. But I will never agree to the official painting in the registry office and the wedding. It's unthinkable! That woman immediately disliked me. I can't imagine what a daughter-in-law she would be to me.
We want this story to be an example of how it shouldn’t be. This is not about choosing a son, but about his mother’s behavior. Parents want only the best for their children. But this should not come at their expense. Whatever your son's companion, It must be respected and accepted. the way she is.
Who do you think is right about this story? You may have faced a similar situation in your life. It will be great if you share your experience in the comments!
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