What wise ladies promise to tell their friends

My mother often tells me that personal conversations between friends They should not go beyond what is permitted. I never understood her “permissibility,” and my mother never had many friends. What did she mean?



As it turns out, the whole thing is taboo topics. My mother told me that she would never talk to her closest friend. As a result, there are 4 main aspects that seem familiar to me. I wonder what you'll say about that?

Personal conversations "Don't take the garbage out of the house" The first taboo subject. relationship. Women tend to tell their girlfriends about any quarrel or misunderstanding. So they pour out their souls and think it will be easier for them. But my mother always told me, "Don't take the garbage out of the house."



Once she knew in her own skin what can lead to deliberate sincerity and trust. Of course, my mom doesn’t want this to happen to me. On this point I tend to agree with her. It seems to me that you should not reduce conversation with friends to complaints about problems that will soon be solved. This does not leave the most pleasant residue.

"Happiness loves silence." Some people love to share all their achievements and joyful events with others. But don't overdo it. Why brag about your happiness? You never know what rash talk can lead to. “Happiness loves silence,” my mother often says. And I understand it, because I myself was burned many times, trusting others extra.



My mother often tells me that you should not talk about your income with friends. This topic is quite sensitive and delicate. You don’t have to ask your friends how much they earn. It's just indecent. To convince me that she was right, my mother gave an example from her own life.



© Freepik "I started making good money at the time." Out of inexperience, she boasted to her friend because she was in seventh heaven with happiness. A couple of days later, Lenka came to me to borrow a fairly large amount of money. But I didn't, because I saved money for repairs. That was the end of our friendship. A friend just disappeared from my life. That's how it is!

My mother doesn’t believe that friends can sincerely feel all other people’s problems. Especially when it comes to health. She never tells anyone about her illnesses or illnesses.



© Freepik Once my mother went down for 3 months and spent a long time in the hospital. Even the closest friend came to visit her only once, referring to the fact that she had many problems. Maybe it was. But after this incident, my mother stopped telling anyone about her health problems.

I don’t always listen to my mother’s advice. I don’t fully agree with her attitude towards friends. Ours. private There are different things with friends. Somewhere slip and complaints, and experiences, and sores. But of course, everything has to be in moderation. What matters is how much you trust a person and how close they are to you.

Do your friends know everything about you? It will be interesting to know your point of view on today’s topic. We'll see you in the comments!