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What women do without close friends, with whom they spend time
Why would a woman want friends? To share with them their joys and experiences, discuss topics that can not be discussed with your husband or parents. However, you need to distinguish a real friend from friends. At some point in their lives, girls are left without girlfriends. Why this happens and what it is like to live with such girls, we will tell you today.
Since childhood, girls play mother-daughter, they strive to build a family sooner or later in their lives. How many friends did you have from school to university? I had such a friend, I considered her my man. And then she got married and we never saw her again.
Where do your friends go? Married friends dissolve in household chores, and unmarried ones? The fact that the decision to stop communicating with friends married women, as a rule, make themselves. Someone has a very enviable husband, to whom friends constantly build eyes.
“Families after 25 are not needed, but there may be friends with whom communication takes place at a short distance. It is more expedient to keep your personal boundaries inviolable, and with friends this is problematic, and a lot of resources goes, in addition, real friends are rather rare, says Alya.
Someone understands that life has changed and interests with the former girlfriend no longer overlap. And someone just needs freedom. The older a woman gets, the more she has to worry about. And the husband must please, and the child, and sometimes even friends are unbearable.
I went to rest alone, it’s such freedom! I lay on the beach, looked at architecture, listened to organ music, walked a lot, tried unfamiliar food for interest. Everything is spontaneous, you do not need to adapt to anyone, says Vika.
Sometimes life takes away unnecessary people. Even if you are a very sociable person, you can not help noticing how someone is jealous of your happiness. Or, on the contrary, a friend got married, gave birth to children, and you still will not find your love. Then a friend decides to leave you alone with your problems and lives her happy life.
1976-1985
Unmarried women also stop communicating first. They can no longer tell their secrets to a married friend. Because from now on, they share their innermost thoughts automatically with two people: a friend and her husband. Such a situation suits few and distances people.
“I was always in favor of communication, there were quite a few friends. But almost always communication sooner or later began to cause discomfort. This is discussion behind the back, neglect, the desire to assert themselves. I came to the conclusion that as long as a girl is competitive, it is very difficult for her to find girlfriends. Perhaps at a later age, says Lera.
No one can be judged, everyone has the right to make their own choices. And sometimes people choose what is dear to them, not in favor of friends. This does not mean that there is no female friendship. It exists, but if there is no envy, anger, omissions and condemnation between two women. It's all about behavior. Isn't it? Do you have a best friend you can trust with all your secrets?
Since childhood, girls play mother-daughter, they strive to build a family sooner or later in their lives. How many friends did you have from school to university? I had such a friend, I considered her my man. And then she got married and we never saw her again.
Where do your friends go? Married friends dissolve in household chores, and unmarried ones? The fact that the decision to stop communicating with friends married women, as a rule, make themselves. Someone has a very enviable husband, to whom friends constantly build eyes.
“Families after 25 are not needed, but there may be friends with whom communication takes place at a short distance. It is more expedient to keep your personal boundaries inviolable, and with friends this is problematic, and a lot of resources goes, in addition, real friends are rather rare, says Alya.
Someone understands that life has changed and interests with the former girlfriend no longer overlap. And someone just needs freedom. The older a woman gets, the more she has to worry about. And the husband must please, and the child, and sometimes even friends are unbearable.
I went to rest alone, it’s such freedom! I lay on the beach, looked at architecture, listened to organ music, walked a lot, tried unfamiliar food for interest. Everything is spontaneous, you do not need to adapt to anyone, says Vika.
Sometimes life takes away unnecessary people. Even if you are a very sociable person, you can not help noticing how someone is jealous of your happiness. Or, on the contrary, a friend got married, gave birth to children, and you still will not find your love. Then a friend decides to leave you alone with your problems and lives her happy life.
1976-1985
Unmarried women also stop communicating first. They can no longer tell their secrets to a married friend. Because from now on, they share their innermost thoughts automatically with two people: a friend and her husband. Such a situation suits few and distances people.
“I was always in favor of communication, there were quite a few friends. But almost always communication sooner or later began to cause discomfort. This is discussion behind the back, neglect, the desire to assert themselves. I came to the conclusion that as long as a girl is competitive, it is very difficult for her to find girlfriends. Perhaps at a later age, says Lera.
No one can be judged, everyone has the right to make their own choices. And sometimes people choose what is dear to them, not in favor of friends. This does not mean that there is no female friendship. It exists, but if there is no envy, anger, omissions and condemnation between two women. It's all about behavior. Isn't it? Do you have a best friend you can trust with all your secrets?
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