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A game played by men
A game played by menAttention, girls, you want to be hooked! Men are players. They play games all the time. In childhood, these are machines and soldiers, in his youth, computer and sports games are added to them. Over the years, the scale only changes, and cars become expensive cars, soldiers – military operations. The desire to always be the first, to overcome, to conquer, to achieve – this is an integral part of the male nature.
But there is another game – a game with the opposite sex.
Yes, my dear women, men, and I emphasize this word, always play with us. I used to think that relationships are spontaneous and unpredictable, but it turns out that any gesture, word, hint, gift – all this can not be accidental, but on the contrary, planned in advance.
If you dig deeper, you can find out that they even have a whole science on this account. But we won't dig, that's not the point. I just wanted to believe in the sincerity of feelings, in the spontaneity of impulses and in the crystal purity of intentions.
A friend of mine, let’s leave his name behind, told me in some detail about their methods of conquering the female heart.
Therefore, I want to share this knowledge with you, in order to save you from unnecessary illusions and explain some of the actions of our dear and adored stronger sex.
The tactic is simple - to interest the girl as much as possible in the beginning, and to give her as little as possible later, so that in the end she understands that he is all she needs in this life.
Explain: You walk down the street and suddenly, like snow on your beautiful head, some pleasant young (or not very, age does not matter here) person falls on you with some interesting question (proposal, remark, etc.). Unexpectedly for you - and he has long memorized the right phrase and was just looking for a better candidate to apply it.
And then... Then everything as always - a date, candy, dinner ... It seems like everything goes on as usual, but suddenly your friend (pardon the pun) disappears. Cancels meetings, does not return calls, writes dry, monosyllable messages.
A familiar situation? If so, you may have fallen into his well-prepared trap. This technique even has its own name (something like “closer or further”) and consists in the fact that becoming interesting for you, a man deprives you of his attention. You are suffering, do not understand what happened, look for the reason for his strange behavior.
Well, how so, because you were absolutely sure that this guy cracked your ears and his life without you can not think.In fact, you can’t think of life without it. There is no such thing as a strange void that does not want to be filled. Time passes and it becomes clear - without him boring, sad and attention is lacking. This is like a break from a drug addict (the comparison, of course, is a bit harsh, but what to do is such a thing), who was left without another dose of doping, breaks...
Now get ready - the climax!
He appears again, as if nothing had happened, with his jokes, sweets, and other positives! Yay! The sun is shining again, the eyes are burning and you throw yourself on his neck, getting another dose of endorphin!! Congratulations! Now you are firmly on his hook and you will not get away from him (you remember very well how dreary and lonely it was without him)!
Played, curtain, applause!
To be a little inaccessible to you all the time, not quite "your" - that's his goal.
Knowing that your beloved at any moment can disappear, keeps in tone and strengthens your attachment to him.
What am I saying? Dear ladies, the men are playing with us, that's a fact! But it's nice to know about this fact and let them keep playing!
Author: Anna Romanova
P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness – together we change the world!
Source: www.therapy.by/articles/igri_v_kotorie_igrayut_muzhchini/
But there is another game – a game with the opposite sex.
Yes, my dear women, men, and I emphasize this word, always play with us. I used to think that relationships are spontaneous and unpredictable, but it turns out that any gesture, word, hint, gift – all this can not be accidental, but on the contrary, planned in advance.
If you dig deeper, you can find out that they even have a whole science on this account. But we won't dig, that's not the point. I just wanted to believe in the sincerity of feelings, in the spontaneity of impulses and in the crystal purity of intentions.
A friend of mine, let’s leave his name behind, told me in some detail about their methods of conquering the female heart.
Therefore, I want to share this knowledge with you, in order to save you from unnecessary illusions and explain some of the actions of our dear and adored stronger sex.
The tactic is simple - to interest the girl as much as possible in the beginning, and to give her as little as possible later, so that in the end she understands that he is all she needs in this life.
Explain: You walk down the street and suddenly, like snow on your beautiful head, some pleasant young (or not very, age does not matter here) person falls on you with some interesting question (proposal, remark, etc.). Unexpectedly for you - and he has long memorized the right phrase and was just looking for a better candidate to apply it.
And then... Then everything as always - a date, candy, dinner ... It seems like everything goes on as usual, but suddenly your friend (pardon the pun) disappears. Cancels meetings, does not return calls, writes dry, monosyllable messages.
A familiar situation? If so, you may have fallen into his well-prepared trap. This technique even has its own name (something like “closer or further”) and consists in the fact that becoming interesting for you, a man deprives you of his attention. You are suffering, do not understand what happened, look for the reason for his strange behavior.
Well, how so, because you were absolutely sure that this guy cracked your ears and his life without you can not think.In fact, you can’t think of life without it. There is no such thing as a strange void that does not want to be filled. Time passes and it becomes clear - without him boring, sad and attention is lacking. This is like a break from a drug addict (the comparison, of course, is a bit harsh, but what to do is such a thing), who was left without another dose of doping, breaks...
Now get ready - the climax!
He appears again, as if nothing had happened, with his jokes, sweets, and other positives! Yay! The sun is shining again, the eyes are burning and you throw yourself on his neck, getting another dose of endorphin!! Congratulations! Now you are firmly on his hook and you will not get away from him (you remember very well how dreary and lonely it was without him)!
Played, curtain, applause!
To be a little inaccessible to you all the time, not quite "your" - that's his goal.
Knowing that your beloved at any moment can disappear, keeps in tone and strengthens your attachment to him.
What am I saying? Dear ladies, the men are playing with us, that's a fact! But it's nice to know about this fact and let them keep playing!
Author: Anna Romanova
P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness – together we change the world!
Source: www.therapy.by/articles/igri_v_kotorie_igrayut_muzhchini/
