Men - not Mowgli

The birth of a male body (as in female) does not give a guarantee of turning into a real (that is, possesses male qualities) man. Because without internal education external behavior with high probability will match "man-Mowgli", which is the basic landmarks of life is reduced to survival and procreation. Specially for about it Vera Popova.

Of course, the "normal" gender behaviour is laid in the family. In the presence of his father's example, the boy automatically produces men's opinions. But if "example" is no longer the eyes of men (or example) is that not everyone dares to produce them independently. About real women who are different from "women-Mowgli", we will discuss in the next article, but now let's look at men's States, which are responsible for the men's energy centers.

GOOD-ROD-WITH-YOUR – ability "to do good kind" appears in men, if it respects and protects the members of his kind. Moreover, the older the personality of the man, the greater the number of people counted for family, friends and their families, countrymen, country. Generosity does not grow, if there is a claim to the elder members of the genus, which, incidentally, may look like fear of "displeasing" or "not meet" expectations. To be generous – we need to have something good which give old. It is based on dignity – the ability to achieve wealth is to earn, relying on yourself and not seeking support and patronage from those who already have the achievement.

WITH-SYMPATHY – the ability to feel the mood of the person and respect the pain and anger, without judgment. Because condemnation is the result of the picture of the world built on irresponsibility. When condemnation is jumping out of sympathy to a fictitious "action". If the right to live the compassion, the action will be real and focused not on "Qur", and creation. Empathy requires that when weighing his and others ' actions, there was a balance of the mind and senses, and to feel his way or his. Moreover, sympathy is a more Mature form of recognition of the right to their own feelings, without condemnation, only himself.

STATE-I-DALNOSTI is when a man has access to the state of creation of the case, which it really POPs. The consequence of this is the ability to create the material condition of method of self-realization – that is, the ability to be in that business, which is in tune with their own abilities and desires. Viability is lost if it ceases to be fun. When you start to force yourself to do what some reason it does not want sacrifice as creation, because I do not trust him. Of solvency are the hardness and the strength of the spirit, which are expressed in "word of honor".



HONOR – a condition in which it is impossible to speak the truth, because it is a betrayal of yourself. Comes in out of honesty and integrity. State of honour as a barometer in the form of conscience is immune from the fears that appear, if you do not do everything in your power to stay present.

As psychologists say there is the subconscious does not hear the particle "not" and takes a team to move in without it? So it turns out that the qualities of personality without the particle "not" is, as if specially eradicated from everyday speech names. Not to make excuses dignity. Not to condemn compassion. Not to get – consistency. Don't lie, honor.

 

 

 

Liz Gilbert. The best advice in my lifePeople, why do you lie all the time

Assume now that as the half wound on a mustache and put in your rider the necessary items. But to speak aloud to the man about what you want to see it is a manifestation of one of the anti-feminine qualities.

We, ladies, will also have to grow a cocktail of conditions in which naturally alienated the manifestation of anti-masculinity and walk if you feel safe. published

 

Author: Vera Popova

 

Source: Vera Popova

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