Almost the same situation in different time intervals is very different feelings. Once it has caused a storm of emotions (including crying, prosecution of all mortal sins, then resentment, cessation of communication, etc), and another time with the same person perceived the situation calmly. The second embodiment is obviously much better. The reason for the behavior of the first embodiment - the lack of strength. Both physically and emotionally. Here is the work to identify the causes taken and giving force.
We lose power: h6> · when we say "yes", while I wanted to say "no»,
· When to smile, instead of crying,
· When not resting,
· When we persuade ourselves to suffer a little more, rather than to understand "For what purpose, I light it now endure?»
· When offended, instead ask the person about what we need,
· When doing the wrong business,
· When the person you are not interested, and you, for some contrived reason to continue to communicate with him,
· When the people next to you most of the time
talk about the negative,
· When we talk a lot about politics, utility tariffs, traffic jams, etc.
· When the gossip,
· When a lot of emotional and talks about how others live,
• When working on uninteresting, boring work,
· When we are afraid,
· When waiting circumstances that will change lives for the better,
· When berated himself, considers himself unworthy, incompetent, unsuccessful,
· When someone thinks you so, and you agree with this.
We gain strength when: h6> · meeting new people,
· Acquire new knowledge,
· Traveling,
· Overcome your fears,
· Try something new (but certainly within reason),
· Walk (not to be confused with the "run job" or go to the store and just walk around without any specific purpose),
· Flirting,
· Engage in creative work (suitable painting, cross stitching, cutting out a jigsaw etc.),
· Communicate with nice people,
· Communicate with the people who support us and believe in us,
· Engaged with his body (you can use any bodily practices, sauna, swimming pool, jogging, gymnastics, etc.),
· Free the physical space (think of how differently you feel in a renovated room),
· Free the emotional space (remember, as you otherwise feel when failed plain and simple with a man),
· Say "no" when you want to say "no" and say "yes" when you want to say "yes»,
• When starting to do what we want.
