When we're talking about a woman, we remember her angelic quality. We read "feminine Charm", listen to lectures of the Vedic authors. And realize that everything is correct. Even if we do not do so, the feeling of correctness – is. Yes, surely the ideal woman should be.
But is it only this? Is it only pink and fluffy? Only understanding and forgiving? When we completely deny the other part of the female essence, thereby creating a lot of problems. For themselves and for loved ones. In the Vedic tradition the feminine energy is described as consisting of three elements. And they called the names of Vedic Goddesses, such as Goddess are in any other mythology. What are the three energy there is in a woman? The energy of Lakshmi – the goddess of fortune and the Energy of Saraswati – goddess of knowledge the Energy of Durga – the goddess of destruction
, We often talk about knowledge and creativity and thereby cultivate the energy of Saraswati. We are talking about how to love and care, increase family well-being – inspiring the husband on exploits. And it's about the energy of Lakshmi. But about the energy of Durga we're talking rare. But is that enough for us? For those who have a good script girls developed too much in one, if not every? For those who are accustomed to earn the love and try to save their parents? But in the post-Soviet space we are almost all in varying degrees, suffer from this syndrome. So you want to discuss this topic separately.
Let's start with the fact that the energy of Durga in every woman. And this energy is initially female. We often confuse it with male energy, more often – do not let it exit. Because it's kind of not very good. Wrong. Not according to Vedic canons. And it says only that we know nothing about this energy. Nothing. So let's start to get acquainted with it. Whether it is male energy?
The first question usually arises when we try to determine the sex of this energy. Women going through, you do not want once again to take in the male. And very often we hang on the energy of Durga, the label "Male, do not touch, dangerous" — and pass by. And absolutely nothing. Because it is very easy to distinguish – the vector orientation of energy: Male energy – the energy of competition, struggle, conquest of the land and leadership. That is, the male energy is always directed outward. For other people, the world around you. The man protecting loved ones, capable of feats and sacrifice. The female energy Durga
is the energy of self – defense, rescue, energy of self-preservation. Feminine energy is always directed inward. Protecting their children, a woman rescues like part of itself. So quick and accurate response – as if in danger of not another man, and her leg or arm. Is it good energy?
Actually the word "good" in this place, in relation to energy jarring. But that is exactly how we evaluate a situation and their behavior. To be good and to be right – for most of us means “to be loved”. To understand what this energy is needed, let's see what it gives. In what situations we need it. Let's start with the extra options. When the child is in danger, any woman can become a tiger. To pounce on the offender, or to snatch the baby from the clutches of danger. Can we call it the quality is bad or useless? When there is a difficult situation – the loss of the breadwinner, war, crop failure, a woman is able not only to survive but to save the children. Remember the terrible story of the siege of Leningrad, in what ways and how strongly the mother has helped to improve child survival in such extreme conditions. But whether it is necessary in everyday life? Maybe it's a secret room where you want to go only in the difficult moments? In peacetime, it may be wise to lose her key? God nothing is given to us just like that. And all that is given to us by God — has a good purpose and useful for all application. Most of all we suffer in that case, if on a gift label: “This is bad!”. What can happen to a woman who enjoys the energy of Durga? She doesn't know what he wants.
It was a strange move? But let's look again at the root – energy of self-preservation. If women desire is a part of her, the ability to desire is the basis of survival. She allows themselves to be treated badly.
This is again self-preservation. In my understanding, women who allow themselves to be beat, humiliate and offend – to commit a double fault. Not only that, they are destroying their soul and their nature. They also condone the weaknesses and vices of his loved one, who again and again commit such a fatal mistake. And then it will have to pay – even if he does not understand. She can't bring her husband – she lacks the toughness and understanding of the importance of this process.
She is sorry for him, want to talk, physical affection. Looking for an excuse to give up without a fight. Doing his work for him. She can inspire her man.
After the female desires the male engine of progress. And in difficult times need tasks that inspire. Survival and payment of property – not the scale. But joyful wife with a new ring – that's another conversation. The goal should always be put much higher – it is necessary to "along the way". But a woman who enjoys the energy of Durga, will be ashamed and uncomfortable to ask the dress or the ring, when the light isn't paid for. She does not have an opinion.
She can marry the man who just called, even if he knows it's not the same person. She can go to school wherever necessary parents, but not where it breaks heart. All her life she can do the job, which he hates. Make friends with those from which it becomes bad. To communicate with those who use it. It lacks the firmness to say "No".
So she does everything for everyone – and has neither the time nor the energy for yourself. It is trouble-free. Everyone knows it. And many use. She can't keep her clean.
Very often, girls begin sexual life, fearing that they will be thrown. And often the girls agree to bed, deep down already knowing that they are being used. Thereby they not only destroy themselves, but also harm these young guys. That still don't know that it too will have to answer. She can't set boundaries and guard your personal space. So in her soul to leave marks everyone can. And she had nothing to answer. And if there is it, the conscience does not allow. Anyone can command her life. Just not herself. Without this energy is impossible self-esteem. Because in order to feel worthy – you need to be able to answer
Just one story In the Vedic literature tells about a Queen. Her husband went to war, she stayed in the Palace. But the king on the battlefield, found a huge imbalance of power in favor of the enemy. And for a moment he chickened out. So he just ran to the Palace, to stay alive. But here was waiting for his surprise. Dear and beloved wife refused to open the gate. Moreover, she said that does not recognize in him her husband. "My husband is brave and courageous. He never leaves the battlefield out of cowardice. He will fight to the last. And either win or die" That was left to the king? Only back on the field and win. Despite the preponderance of forces and own. What energy helped the Queen to keep the rigidity of their position, not to give up the slack? Of course, the energy of Durga. On the one hand it seems a little extreme. But if you look deeper? If the king stayed in the Palace – what would happen to his people? And with his manhood? How he would feel, knowing this fatal moment of cowardice? And what is the basis of the deed of the Queen? Cruelty? Or the Love that helped her spouse to reveal their best qualities and to overcome vices? How to use it?
This is the most difficult question. Because on the one hand, the energy is there. And it is needed. On the other hand, any guidance on the use of energy — incomplete, sketchy and does not take into account all aspects. Because come the main points. This energy is needed. If you suppress it in yourself, it will be a blast. Either inside with the diseases and health problems. Or outside and can hurt innocent people. On the other hand, if you decide that this energy is basic, can be no less mangled wood. To be rude to everyone and on any occasion, to achieve his innocence and recognition. This is a real emancipation and feminism. The answer is that the energy of Durga must be closely linked with the other two components. This is the first condition. After all, education without love is just soulless management. And self-esteem without concern for the other – the real Snow Queen. The first rule. The energy of Durga – the only one of the energies of women.
The other two are associated with love and care (Lakshmi) and creativity (Saraswati). Between these three components needs to be a balance. Therefore: take Care of yourself, your beauty and your body Care for your loved ones, prepare food with love and Care for the beauty and comfort of your home (all of this feeds the energy of Lakshmi) get creative Learn how to live and apply the acquired knowledge (supporting the energy of Saraswati) Learn how to educate loved ones – and strictly with the Love within you Say “no” to people and events with whom you are not on the way Clear the debris in his house and his soul (and maintain this energy of Durga) The second rule is that energy can not be push.
For example, when you raised a protest from that much added work, it need not be suppressed. No need to smile like you're happy. No need to lie to people, it is not necessary to dissemble for the sake of goodness. Otherwise this energy will accumulate so that you will not be able to control themselves – and the explosion happened. Does it happen in the “safe” place in your home. And this energy will result in innocent children or spouse.
But no need to rush into extremes of aggression and rudeness. The best way to protest is when you have a stud, you know what you want and what you deserve. And feeling this rod strictly say that you will not do this. With the right attitude – you are no one will even ask why you think so. The third rule. This energy a woman can use only for good purposes.
Only for the common good. The salvation of the child is clear. And the salvation of his soul? And the salvation of your family? And the salvation of her husband, of alcohol or another woman? Or examples from another story – the right work, clear the queue (so nobody got in), to change from her husband by threats and abuse... the Fourth rule. Find a use for it in my life. Peaceful and daily. For example, regularly clear the debris of the house and do the cleaning. Curing and ozdoravlivatj home. To protect their happiness. Take care of your inner personal space.
At first it all seems complicated. Especially for good girls who can't even make your bed in the morning – not that no. But through trial and error, comes the understanding of these facets – where else is not worth it, and where it is high time to transfer to the “Durga”.published Be holistic in their Femininity! Author Olga Valyaeva
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©