Recently I met my sister and learned from her all the details of my family’s life, barely held back, so as not to immediately go to my daughter-in-law.

To some extent, we all like to scratch our tongue. Someone more, someone less, but communication is an important part of our lives, no matter what anyone says. However, if you miss a share of your own conjectures and embellishments in this communication, in this case it turns into an ordinary chatter that does not carry any useful information. How gossip is born And rumors? Yes, it is very simple, exactly at the moment when someone first decides to impress the interlocutor.



And what's really hurtful is that sometimes talking like that can actually hurt. Someone will make the wrong conclusions for themselves, react too much – and live the conflict out of the blue. Therefore, even when talking with your closest friends and friends, it is important not to try to surprise them too much. Exaggeration is normal, but you don’t have to go beyond it. Telling the truth is the best solution anyway.

Last month I met my sister who congratulated me on my wonderful daughter-in-law. She also expressed regret that my son already has health problems at such a young age. I was in a hurry, so I didn’t pay enough attention to her words. But just a week later I met a Kuma, who at the meeting told me about the same thing. That's when I questioned her properly and finally figured out what the matter was.

Her answers made me take a loud breath and roll my eyes on the machine. Again, Masha and her long tongue without bones. My only son's wife is back in her repertoire. How does she manage to keep in touch with so many people? She recently came from abroad! Just stay home, for God's sake. Haven't seen the kids for a year, so stay with them and your husband. No, she has to gossip with the whole city, she just can't live without it! This is how gossip about our family is born.



My son married Maria about 7 years ago. They rented an apartment, both worked, and quickly had a son. Then, a year and a half later, a daughter appeared. A wonderful young family with two children. As a grandmother, could I have wanted anything else? Of course, I did not like that Tolya, my son, being the father of a whole family, had to work on a rotational basis. He rarely came home, saw little of his children and wife, but brought some money. So their standard of living was pretty good.

Especially since his immediate supervisor was a former classmate. A good friend and friend, even I remember him from school. Tolya admitted to me that if it had not been for him, he would hardly have gotten such a good place with a generous salary and relatively benign conditions. Anyway, Masha after the birth of her son went on maternity leave, engaged in children and enjoyed life. And why not if she had constant access to her husband's card? You can go to the gym, and in a cafe with friends. And how does the husband feel – it does not matter, he is a breadwinner.



I may be a bit biased as a mother, but you'll forgive me for that. I try to be a good mother-in-law and not to interfere unnecessarily in the family life of my son. But I cannot keep silent about the fact that my daughter-in-law is too much of a talker. Even at the wedding, she collected a lot of contacts between our relatives and the son of the party and began to actively communicate with them. Why? I don't know, that's the character. Touching her tongue is a special pleasure for Mary.

Unfortunately, more than a year ago, Tolya lost his job. Not because of any mistakes or mistakes. The owner of the business he worked for decided to sell everything. They replaced the old workers with new ones. In general, it's a regular story. But it was she who significantly hit the family budget of the son and daughter-in-law. Therefore, despite Toli’s attempts to find a job with decent pay, Masha decided to act on her own. To go abroad to earn money. Fortunately, one of her many friends has already caught on there, so there were no problems with finding a job.



Peels Tolik asked her to come to her senses, wait until he found a better option. I don’t think they ran out of money in one day. Savvy Masha can not be called, but even she must understand that she has two children, so some money should always be put aside just in case. Especially since this very incident actually happened. However, my son’s words were not heard and Mary left for a year.

All this time I was helping my grandchildren. I came to see them a little bit, because of my abilities, of course. Cooked, cleaned, if there was time. My son wasn’t on the couch either, he was always busy. To tell you the truth, my opinion is that he would put the children on his feet. Judge for yourself: he found a new job, there are no bad habits, everything is fine with character. Well, he doesn't run after children like a hen chicken, but he's a father. I also believe that everyone in the family has a role to play.



Peels And then Mary came. It's been a year. The first thing she did was invite ten people, including me, to a restaurant. She told me how she worked at her friend’s gym. She helped other adult women lose weight and get in shape. In general, she did physical exercises here, so there was nothing difficult for her, I think, in this case was not. Well, well, I made some money, and I saw another country. Is that bad? Good.

But, instead of calming down and having a good time with her family, she took it back. She spread rumors that my son had become weak in every way and had no choice but to become the head of the family herself. Now she earns money while Tolia sits with the children like a babysitter. And Masha, therefore, with her hump literally earns every penny, every cent, to spend everything on the family.



Peels is a small town, so the lies echoed from all corners. You know how gossip is born. And considering that the daughter-in-law knows a huge number of people, such word of mouth is not to my liking. My son, I think, already knows everything. He also has friends himself. It turns out that our family in the eyes of people is now kind of ridiculous and crooked. And all thanks to Masha and her inventions. So now I want to hear about her more insultingly, so that she feels this sense of shame. But I can't think of anything worthwhile. Stupid stories about others are not my favorite. But the fact that the daughter-in-law needs to be taught is a fact.