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My son didn’t answer his phone, so I started to worry, I decided to dial up the slack, but I wish I hadn’t.
Characteristics of a strong personality It can be described in just a few sentences. First, it is stress resistance and the ability to maintain composure in almost any situation. Cold emotions will help to get out of any trouble. Secondly, any negativity such a person perceives as an immediate challenge and nothing more. In childhood, this can be difficult, especially for parents: constant calls to school, disgruntled teachers. But in adulthood, such a worldview helps to achieve something in life.
At the same time, a strong personality does not necessarily have a pleasant character for others. This is only in books and films, the main character is a master of all trades and the object of adoration of all the local girls in the area. In fact, circumstances and social circle can play a cruel joke with any person. And it turns out that your troubled neighbor, who brings friends to him at night, is such a strong personality. And he doesn't care about other residents' complaints. The maximum that his reaction will be enough is to give cheap earplugs to all dissatisfied. And do what you want, it won't change.
After long scandals and clarifications of the relationship, I finally accepted the conditions of my son. Less involved in your life with your wife. Do not call every other day and ask about the news. Now I realize that I used to be a little bit out of line, but that's the kind of person I am and it's hard for me to contain my own emotions. However, this did not affect the situation too much. My son and daughter-in-law do not call me themselves, and even in our communication they do not burn with enthusiasm. Which makes me feel a little sad in my heart.
A sudden trip A recently had another episode. I called on Wednesday, not for nothing, but for business. My son replied reluctantly, and we discussed my question. Out of habit, I asked him about his and his wife's weekend plans, and he muttered something small. That they kind of want to go somewhere, but nothing concrete has not yet decided. Well, I thought, perhaps, they will once again visit their mutual friends outside the city. Well, sometimes you do too.
But just imagine my surprise when I found out they didn't go to any friends. And rented a spacious car and went on a mini-journey to another area. For a few days without telling anyone. Like little kids. I won’t say that I was excited about this idea, even though people are already adults, but why spend extra money on such pampering? A foreign car, a huge amount of expensive gasoline and so on. What, childhood in the same place?
And when I said that they had left in secret, it wasn't quite true, because they didn't commit anyone to their plans except my sister-in-law's mother. She was the one who told me everything on the phone. Yes, I called her just in case, because I was worried, but if something happened to the children, they do not pick up the phone, and in general, for the weekend we agreed to call my son ... But Olga Viktorovna reacted to the same situation in a very different way.
Peels Characteristics of a strong personality She is an old-school woman. 5 years younger than me, thin, with bags under my eyes and a short haircut. At first, you might think that she is a rather morose and introverted person, but this is not true. On the contrary, how many people in my life I tried to like, and I do not have a tenth of the acquaintances that she has. Something she's attracted to, I'll tell you. If you want a strong personality, you can write from it. But I personally find it difficult to communicate with a person who is completely uninterested in someone else’s life.
When my son and her daughter were married, she even refused to make a toast: she just raised her glass and shouted something. But the whole table supported her, and it was after her that the guests began to congratulate the young in the same way. And I wrote three sheets, trying to make sure that my toast was long, beautiful and hit the target. And then I realized it wasn't worth it. And Olga Viktorovna did not worry about the upcoming ceremony, so she did not even bother with the dress and cosmetics. I thought she would be laughed at, but no, everyone praised her for her bold and stylish look.
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I was at their house before the wedding. It seems clean, tidy. But there was nothing to breathe from the smoke: at least hang the axe. I asked to open the windows to ventilate the apartment, but my husband pretended not to hear, and had to sit like this. Then I even began to nauseate, but the second time I did not have the courage to make the same remark. I'm a woman, no matter what age. Since childhood, we are taught to be educated and friendly. These are the basic rules of good manners.
They say that this character is either given to you from childhood, or forged throughout life. This is usually what fifteen-year-olds want to be. They like to be very cool and independent. But, in my opinion, it is better when your life goes on a flat straight road, without bumps and shaking. Only then can you remain a kind and gentle person. Think about it, there's nothing wrong with that. And the nervous system doesn't suffer.
Peels Strong character I know that my snuckle has suffered in its time. First, she learned that her husband was cheating on her, and then that he took all their money to the very famous pyramid of his time, MMM. And, of course, burned out. A year later, my daughter-in-law came into the world. In a family without money and inner love between spouses. What would I do then? I can't even imagine, I would probably go crazy. But Olga Viktorovna picked herself up and divorced. Then she started working and even went into business. This probably gave her the opportunity not to sell the apartment for debts.
I would like to be friends with her, because we can help each other in many ways. And in fact, if you think about it, they're almost native people. But I'm not comfortable with some kind of cool attitude towards my own daughter, let alone my son. You raised it yourself, and you have one. Why do you care so much about their lives? Svatya does not call them, does not go to visit. He takes care of his own affairs and generally behaves like an extra person. It's the norm for her.
Peels And I think that's not normal. Why give birth to children so that you don’t communicate with them at all? I think it's because of the callousness of character. That's my opinion anyway. Even though the kids hurt me a little bit, I'll keep beating my line to the end. And let Olga Viktorovna continue to live her life as a hermit. Life will judge us and put everything in its place.
At the same time, a strong personality does not necessarily have a pleasant character for others. This is only in books and films, the main character is a master of all trades and the object of adoration of all the local girls in the area. In fact, circumstances and social circle can play a cruel joke with any person. And it turns out that your troubled neighbor, who brings friends to him at night, is such a strong personality. And he doesn't care about other residents' complaints. The maximum that his reaction will be enough is to give cheap earplugs to all dissatisfied. And do what you want, it won't change.
After long scandals and clarifications of the relationship, I finally accepted the conditions of my son. Less involved in your life with your wife. Do not call every other day and ask about the news. Now I realize that I used to be a little bit out of line, but that's the kind of person I am and it's hard for me to contain my own emotions. However, this did not affect the situation too much. My son and daughter-in-law do not call me themselves, and even in our communication they do not burn with enthusiasm. Which makes me feel a little sad in my heart.
A sudden trip A recently had another episode. I called on Wednesday, not for nothing, but for business. My son replied reluctantly, and we discussed my question. Out of habit, I asked him about his and his wife's weekend plans, and he muttered something small. That they kind of want to go somewhere, but nothing concrete has not yet decided. Well, I thought, perhaps, they will once again visit their mutual friends outside the city. Well, sometimes you do too.
But just imagine my surprise when I found out they didn't go to any friends. And rented a spacious car and went on a mini-journey to another area. For a few days without telling anyone. Like little kids. I won’t say that I was excited about this idea, even though people are already adults, but why spend extra money on such pampering? A foreign car, a huge amount of expensive gasoline and so on. What, childhood in the same place?
And when I said that they had left in secret, it wasn't quite true, because they didn't commit anyone to their plans except my sister-in-law's mother. She was the one who told me everything on the phone. Yes, I called her just in case, because I was worried, but if something happened to the children, they do not pick up the phone, and in general, for the weekend we agreed to call my son ... But Olga Viktorovna reacted to the same situation in a very different way.
Peels Characteristics of a strong personality She is an old-school woman. 5 years younger than me, thin, with bags under my eyes and a short haircut. At first, you might think that she is a rather morose and introverted person, but this is not true. On the contrary, how many people in my life I tried to like, and I do not have a tenth of the acquaintances that she has. Something she's attracted to, I'll tell you. If you want a strong personality, you can write from it. But I personally find it difficult to communicate with a person who is completely uninterested in someone else’s life.
When my son and her daughter were married, she even refused to make a toast: she just raised her glass and shouted something. But the whole table supported her, and it was after her that the guests began to congratulate the young in the same way. And I wrote three sheets, trying to make sure that my toast was long, beautiful and hit the target. And then I realized it wasn't worth it. And Olga Viktorovna did not worry about the upcoming ceremony, so she did not even bother with the dress and cosmetics. I thought she would be laughed at, but no, everyone praised her for her bold and stylish look.
50258.500
I was at their house before the wedding. It seems clean, tidy. But there was nothing to breathe from the smoke: at least hang the axe. I asked to open the windows to ventilate the apartment, but my husband pretended not to hear, and had to sit like this. Then I even began to nauseate, but the second time I did not have the courage to make the same remark. I'm a woman, no matter what age. Since childhood, we are taught to be educated and friendly. These are the basic rules of good manners.
They say that this character is either given to you from childhood, or forged throughout life. This is usually what fifteen-year-olds want to be. They like to be very cool and independent. But, in my opinion, it is better when your life goes on a flat straight road, without bumps and shaking. Only then can you remain a kind and gentle person. Think about it, there's nothing wrong with that. And the nervous system doesn't suffer.
Peels Strong character I know that my snuckle has suffered in its time. First, she learned that her husband was cheating on her, and then that he took all their money to the very famous pyramid of his time, MMM. And, of course, burned out. A year later, my daughter-in-law came into the world. In a family without money and inner love between spouses. What would I do then? I can't even imagine, I would probably go crazy. But Olga Viktorovna picked herself up and divorced. Then she started working and even went into business. This probably gave her the opportunity not to sell the apartment for debts.
I would like to be friends with her, because we can help each other in many ways. And in fact, if you think about it, they're almost native people. But I'm not comfortable with some kind of cool attitude towards my own daughter, let alone my son. You raised it yourself, and you have one. Why do you care so much about their lives? Svatya does not call them, does not go to visit. He takes care of his own affairs and generally behaves like an extra person. It's the norm for her.
Peels And I think that's not normal. Why give birth to children so that you don’t communicate with them at all? I think it's because of the callousness of character. That's my opinion anyway. Even though the kids hurt me a little bit, I'll keep beating my line to the end. And let Olga Viktorovna continue to live her life as a hermit. Life will judge us and put everything in its place.
My husband stayed more and more late at work, and went to a friend for the weekend, I didn’t pay attention until it was too late.
Recently I met my sister and learned from her all the details of my family’s life, barely held back, so as not to immediately go to my daughter-in-law.