I call home and find out that my mom just disappeared without telling me where she was going.

Should children be involved in the relationship between parents? Family crises They are all there, but adults try not to involve anyone in them. Even other family members. First, the more opinions, the harder it is to understand the situation. And secondly, it is difficult to be completely honest with your child. It doesn't matter what age it is.



Peels On the other hand, children also have a hard time. Parents are almost always the closest people. One way or another, they need to try to help. But what if no one is listening? And you'll never get them to an expert on these issues. So it turns out stalemate situation, to get out of which without anyone unnecessary negativity is a task.

You know how they say, “You can take a person out of a village, but you can never take the village out of a person.” These are the most accurate words about my mother. And I say that without any negativity. It's just that it really is. I can answer for every word personally.

When I was a kid, I used to go to my grandmother’s house. My mom always insisted on it, and my dad rolled his eyes and banged something through his teeth. I had no right to vote, so I just silently agreed to my fate. Now I know that it took me an hour and a half to go to my grandmother. In my mind, it was a whole day, no less.

We had to wait for the bus at the station first. In the company of the same unfortunate people who just stood silently, spreading bags near their feet. There was no shop at the stop for some reason. I remember very well that whenever we left, we had to wait for the bus for a while. He never came in time.



Then load: the smells of gasoline, food, tobacco and everything else mixed in the cramped cabin of the bus. If I was lucky enough to go sitting, I tried all the way to wash myself in such a way that I was not bothered by the glowing sun in my face. If I had to stand, I would stand on one leg, because there was not much room for me because of all the gardening.

But how blossomed my mother was when we finally went to my grandmother. She came to chickens and geese. Be sure to treat the neighbor's dog on a chain. My mother had a very good relationship with my grandmother. My dad might not even have come into the house for a while. Just wandering around and looking at other people's landings, studying the well and so on. He went to his mother-in-law when there was nothing else left.

After these trips, parents often quarreled. Sometimes family crises. Dad swore every time it was the last time he set foot in that house. His mother, of course, only supported him in this endeavor. It's a little high-pitched. It's hard for parents to know when you're a child. Now I can guess something. But then their relationship was an absolute mystery to me.



Now that they are over sixty years old, you do not need to go to any village. Grandma has long passed away, and in her house settled my mother’s brother, my uncle and family. It would seem that this question is solved. But no. It's been a week since Mom and Dad had a fight, so much so that Mom even packed some things and left home.

I only found out about it a couple of days ago. I went to see my dad right away. At all my questions, he only stared melancholy at the ceiling and murmured something under his nose. All I could find out was that it wasn’t my fault (oh, really, I didn’t know); it wasn’t serious, Mom would be back soon; he wouldn’t be looking for her because they were adults.



As you probably guessed, my suspicions immediately fell on her parental home. There is a lot of room, so you can stay at your uncle’s house without any problems. I called my mother on my mobile and heard birds chirping a couple of times, which is almost impossible to hear in our city: silence comes only at night. Birds are known to sleep during this time.

Now I'm thinking of coming to my mom and telling her everything I've got. She is already an adult, accomplished. How much can you be an offended girl? No matter what he does, he is always her husband. Well, you quarreled, so we can discuss everything, decide on the spot. Why go anywhere? Or is it her love for the country again?



Peels' mother is, of course, a peculiar person. She also forgets her grandmother’s duties. She has two grandchildren, whom she really wanted and asked me for. Is that it? It’s done and you can get away from your family. No, that won't work.

In our conversation, Dad was lost, which may be the fault of some of their misunderstandings about another woman. But it's all about deep youth. How can they affect our lives now? Anyway, my mother is a grown woman. What happened in the past, let it stay in the past. And remembering the past now, when it is time to babysit grandchildren, it is, sorry, ridiculous. Such family crises are no longer age-related.



We all have our own personal dreams and desires. But life often happens in such a way that some of them have to close their eyes. And age doesn't decide anything. I am no longer a girl, but if necessary, I give up everything to find out where my mother is and why she allows herself to behave so ugly. You just can’t continue to be selfish and you should already think about other people’s feelings, not just your own.