Women who make more money than husbands are hell-bent on homework. Bashny.Net

When you think of successful women, you always have the same image in your head. Natasha was always purposeful and went to her goal like a tank. And her goal was grand. break out of poverty To ensure a rich and comfortable life. Parents encouraged the aspiration of the daughter and in every possible way contributed and when she lived in the dorm – stuffed with food checkered bags, and when the new apartment needed to be repaired – free labor in the form of a father and younger brother.

Natasha had a good life plan. And yes, she wasn't thinking about anything else. But still parental joy was darkened by one circumstance - son-in-law. His income steadily went to zero with every year he lived in marriage. Editorial "Site" They talk about successful women and their family problems.



About successful women I love always and in everything order. It's perfect, like the picture. I made my life this way, got what I wanted with my hellish work. I have a complete family: a husband and two beautiful children – a boy and a girl. But what trouble do I have to keep our ship afloat? I am the main source of income, I work hard and I am responsible for the whole household. But my husband doesn't feel obliged to clean up, even if he stays home all day. He still thinks that womanhood! And his business is repair and tinkering with the car.



Sometimes I feel hurt and tired. When I ask him to do something, like vacuum the house, he can do it in 15 minutes! Guess how carefully this will be done. And that's why I have to do it yourselfFalling from his feet with fatigue. I'm looking for sympathy and I don't find it. I think men should learn to do all the housework. Especially when I have my entire family budget. Men always complain that a woman wants money, but can’t do anything properly. Why would anyone want someone who is not good for anything?



Victor has his own truth: how a man thinks about successful women, and I don't see anything seditious about me not working now. My mom was a traditional farmer while raising me and my brother, and my dad was away at work all his life. But he was an amazing father! Helped my mom as best I could on weekends. Parents never quarreled over things like vacuum cleaners and dishes. When he retired, his mother went to work. He worked for 15 years until his retirement. He washed, washed dishes, cooked. We never gave each other errands, just worked as a team. They lived together for 40 years until Dad died. Now my mother would give anything to wash the dishes with him again.



My beloved often grumbles and complains that I do not help her around the house. But no matter what I do, she doesn't. She criticizes me for all sorts of trifles, they seem mega-important to her. That makes me feel like a loser. So now I can neither cook nor wash.

My wife accuses me of not being able to do anything. But that's not true, men can! The best hotels and restaurants are packed with male chefs, and they make a lot of money with their skills. If she took a step back and let me I can handle my own food from start to finish, I assure you, I would do it just fine.



In studies 30 years ago, sociologists predicted that women of the future, that is, you and I, will work more, but at the same time they will be the ones who will take care of children, take the main responsibility for the household, perform more tasks that are considered typically masculine, including finance, do more charity than their mothers, and participate more in public life. And that's what happened. The modern keeper of the hearth is simply overwhelmed with social roles that have fallen on her beautiful head.





However, the situation is not hopeless. If this family has a good income, then why not use paid help and hire a housekeeper to end the dirty dishes argument once and for all? Or teach kids to do it.

Natalia can be advised not to fall into perfectionism about cleanliness in the house. Dust has always been, is and will be, and nerve cells do not regenerate. Wives should not treat their home as a lifeless museum, where all things, like exhibits, are always in their places. And in the free time from cleaning, draw a picture, read a book, go to the gym or ride a bicycle.

And even if a woman is the president and a man is perfect, it does not absolve us dear women of our female responsibilities, which we must recognize.