In the supermarket, I met the new passion of my husband, with whom I lived for 17 years, unsightly, in old boots that he found in her, I do not understand.

Why do mistresses deliberately take husbands away from families? Diana was convinced that it was a profitable relationship for young girls. They do not require special work on themselves, excite a man with novelty. And the amount of adoration and gifts cannot but impress. A mistress may not love her partner at all. It's probably temporary.



Marriage Diana and Yuri Diana and Yuri lived together for 17 years. They had a teenage daughter and a 9-year-old son. Their family life, though not perfect, but verified and systematic. Yuri went to work and provided for the family, and Diana watched the house, children and regularly visited her mother-in-law. She needed regular care, and Diana has been helping her cope with the inevitable passage of time for years.

There wasn't much to complain about. Yuri turned out to be a good husband and a rather attentive father. Unless he was watching his mother. But in his understanding, a woman should be responsible for this. And Diane didn't mind. The role of housewife and keeper of the hearth suited her. Although sometimes she remembered with sadness the times when the engagement ring has not yet constrained her career.



Peels Diana once worked for a small firm. The salary was low, but it was enough. Looking back now, Diana was confident she could have gotten a promotion. There would be more money and more recognition. But it didn't work out. I had to leave my job outside of my home to work in my apartment.

One evening after work, Yuri came and announced that he was leaving the family. He met a girl he loved more than life. Comparing their relationship to a breath of fresh air, he lamented a routine that was already disgusting. That evening he packed some of his things and went to his mother.



The most terrible thing in this situation is to learn that years of effort, dedication and work on yourself were wasted. Diana got scared. She was desperate. After all, without this marriage, she is just a woman who wipes the dust well and cooks for four. She had no money of her own, no place to earn it. We'll have to start over.

Yuri really disappointed her. After all, he was not only a traitor, but also an ungrateful egoist who, apparently, did not appreciate Diana at all. He never apologized that night. He talked only about himself and his feelings, and Diana was a listener and nothing more.



A couple of weeks later, Diana saw Yuri’s new passion in the store. At that time, Diana was even slightly disappointed in her husband’s preferences. The lover had no beauty or charm. She dressed brightly and tastelessly. And from the worn boots it was clear that she had no money. Seeing Diana, she did not wait for the moment and openly declared to her:

- If you think I have a conscience, it's in vain. Yuri is fine with me. By the way, has he shown you the divorce papers yet?

Diana was struck by lightning. But I had to admit it was an expected move. Divorce, yes. But for some reason, Diana thought that Yuri’s marriage with this girl would not come. She doesn't love him. She just likes juggling them.

- I can see that this is just a profitable relationship for you, Diana replied. Use it and leave it when you get your way.

That's what happened in the end.



Six months after the divorce, the mistress left Yuri. Before that, he bought her a long-awaited car. But instead of joint trips, Yuri waited for the road back to her mother. He asked to go back to the family. He repented and blamed everything on “clouding.” But Diana was well aware that such a “clouding” can happen again, if you forgive Yuri.

By this time, Diana had found a job. Even though the position was not the highest, and the salary left much to be desired, this was already the beginning. In addition, Yuri paid child support, so it was a little easier in this regard. The ex-husband continued to visit the children occasionally. But returning as a husband was out of the question.



Peels Life Wisdom: What Does This Story Teach Us? Husbands who go to young mistresses for some reason forget or do not want to see that often for mistresses this is a profitable relationship and nothing more. And when you realize the whole situation, it's too late.

To forgive or not to forgive is the business of every spouse. Much depends on the situation, but you should always consider the possibility of a “relapse” and the appearance of a new mistress.