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Does a man need to pay alimony?
At all times, people divorced, abandoned their families, went to others, this is no surprise now. And no less typical is the situation when it is not possible to divorce peacefully, besides the man refuses to help the child, and the money has to be directly knocked out with the help of the law.
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It is better to ask a lawyer or a lawyer about how to make a man pay alimony, and we will talk about why some men refuse to help a child. Editorial "Site" share his opinion with you Lena Miro about this.
Should I pay child support? Articles by Lena Miro They were always tough and subjective, and this is no exception. But we cannot say that it is too unfair. The main question was why men refused to give money for children.
Lena Miro said, "Let's be honest." Men don't like children. They love themselves more than their children. This is logical from an evolutionary point of view. He may have many children and he may have one. Naturally, he is more important to himself than a bunch of children.”
Is that true? In the case of some men, this is very true. They go to another woman, have another child, and don’t even think about how their first child lives. On what fictions men do not go to hide their income and give the ex-wife as little as possible. And for some reason, many refuse to accept the fact that it is money for a child.
Some fathers forget that the word “alimony” comes from the Latin alimentum, which means “nutrition”. That is, paying alimony, the father must provide food for his children, their main needs. Even in the animal kingdom, males protect and protect their offspring. Some people behave worse than wild animals.
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So why isn't he paying? Miro said, I’ll tell you, because he’s a moral freak. And it's not the sum, just the men in our country, when they leave the children, for some reason do not think about them.
What will his children eat? What to wear? From what means will the mother pay for kindergarten, sports sections, development circles and classes? Whether classmates will start laughing at his child in the garb, the man does not care.
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It goes without saying that those who evade payment of alimony should be dealt with by the investigating authorities and the tax authorities, but this will be in vain until something changes in people’s minds. First, it would change the psychological climate in society, the attitude to the situation as a whole. Despite all the changes in recent years, most people still believe that raising a child is only a woman’s business.
And judge yourself, will a man who left the family cause a stormy condemnation of others? No, it's normal. But the woman who abandoned the children will immediately write in the media. As long as we don’t change, everything else won’t change.
DepositPhotos Another beautiful situation when a man is justified by the fact that his wife left him. Now, if the wife was the initiator of the divorce, then the child does not need alimony? But that's not how it works. The child should not suffer from the fact that you can not figure out who is right and who is guilty.
Lena Miro spoke very accurately about this: “For some reason, it does not reach the offended boys that alimony is not a tribute to the ex-wife, but funds for the maintenance of the child. What does your child eat? Is that what he's wearing? What classes and clubs do you attend? What tutors does he need? What kind of sport does he want to do? What gadgets will help him in his development? These are the main questions, not who gave the horns to whom.
Whether she left on her own, whether she cheated on her husband, how guilty she was of the divorce - all this is completely irrelevant. She may be a complete creature, a hysterical senile, but alimony goes not to her, but to the child. Yeah, kid, you. maintenance. You don't like it? Protect yourself, not put that responsibility on your sexual partner.”
Everyone should be responsible for their actions. Hundreds of thousands of single mothers across the country either don’t get anything from grief dads or are content with poverty. And I think men should be ashamed of that.
In fact, what can our woman count on when applying to the court for alimony? No more than 25% of the income, regardless of the needs of the child and the real salary of the man. And it's good if a man has a white income, not a salary in an envelope. Then a woman can get something, and in other cases... He will get 10,000 rubles and be satisfied with what he has.
It's also a wrong pattern. Miro suggested: “The amount of alimony should not only be strictly fixed, but also adequate. 50 thousand rubles for each child at current prices. A lot? No, it is adequate that the child be a child and not a rag.” It is an adequate system that has long been practiced in European countries. That would be fair.
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Despite the fact that Lena Miro is often harsh and extremely subjective in her statements, this time we completely agree with her opinion. After all, our men would do well to show masculinity, dust off the box called “conscience” and take on at least a small part of the responsibility. This is not true for everyone, but those in question will understand and hopefully act.
Do you think a man should pay alimony? Is Lena Miro right this time? Tell me in the comments!
81DepositPhotos
It is better to ask a lawyer or a lawyer about how to make a man pay alimony, and we will talk about why some men refuse to help a child. Editorial "Site" share his opinion with you Lena Miro about this.
Should I pay child support? Articles by Lena Miro They were always tough and subjective, and this is no exception. But we cannot say that it is too unfair. The main question was why men refused to give money for children.
Lena Miro said, "Let's be honest." Men don't like children. They love themselves more than their children. This is logical from an evolutionary point of view. He may have many children and he may have one. Naturally, he is more important to himself than a bunch of children.”
Is that true? In the case of some men, this is very true. They go to another woman, have another child, and don’t even think about how their first child lives. On what fictions men do not go to hide their income and give the ex-wife as little as possible. And for some reason, many refuse to accept the fact that it is money for a child.
Some fathers forget that the word “alimony” comes from the Latin alimentum, which means “nutrition”. That is, paying alimony, the father must provide food for his children, their main needs. Even in the animal kingdom, males protect and protect their offspring. Some people behave worse than wild animals.
DepositPhotos
So why isn't he paying? Miro said, I’ll tell you, because he’s a moral freak. And it's not the sum, just the men in our country, when they leave the children, for some reason do not think about them.
What will his children eat? What to wear? From what means will the mother pay for kindergarten, sports sections, development circles and classes? Whether classmates will start laughing at his child in the garb, the man does not care.
DepositPhotos
It goes without saying that those who evade payment of alimony should be dealt with by the investigating authorities and the tax authorities, but this will be in vain until something changes in people’s minds. First, it would change the psychological climate in society, the attitude to the situation as a whole. Despite all the changes in recent years, most people still believe that raising a child is only a woman’s business.
And judge yourself, will a man who left the family cause a stormy condemnation of others? No, it's normal. But the woman who abandoned the children will immediately write in the media. As long as we don’t change, everything else won’t change.
DepositPhotos Another beautiful situation when a man is justified by the fact that his wife left him. Now, if the wife was the initiator of the divorce, then the child does not need alimony? But that's not how it works. The child should not suffer from the fact that you can not figure out who is right and who is guilty.
Lena Miro spoke very accurately about this: “For some reason, it does not reach the offended boys that alimony is not a tribute to the ex-wife, but funds for the maintenance of the child. What does your child eat? Is that what he's wearing? What classes and clubs do you attend? What tutors does he need? What kind of sport does he want to do? What gadgets will help him in his development? These are the main questions, not who gave the horns to whom.
Whether she left on her own, whether she cheated on her husband, how guilty she was of the divorce - all this is completely irrelevant. She may be a complete creature, a hysterical senile, but alimony goes not to her, but to the child. Yeah, kid, you. maintenance. You don't like it? Protect yourself, not put that responsibility on your sexual partner.”
Everyone should be responsible for their actions. Hundreds of thousands of single mothers across the country either don’t get anything from grief dads or are content with poverty. And I think men should be ashamed of that.
In fact, what can our woman count on when applying to the court for alimony? No more than 25% of the income, regardless of the needs of the child and the real salary of the man. And it's good if a man has a white income, not a salary in an envelope. Then a woman can get something, and in other cases... He will get 10,000 rubles and be satisfied with what he has.
It's also a wrong pattern. Miro suggested: “The amount of alimony should not only be strictly fixed, but also adequate. 50 thousand rubles for each child at current prices. A lot? No, it is adequate that the child be a child and not a rag.” It is an adequate system that has long been practiced in European countries. That would be fair.
DepositPhotos
Despite the fact that Lena Miro is often harsh and extremely subjective in her statements, this time we completely agree with her opinion. After all, our men would do well to show masculinity, dust off the box called “conscience” and take on at least a small part of the responsibility. This is not true for everyone, but those in question will understand and hopefully act.
Do you think a man should pay alimony? Is Lena Miro right this time? Tell me in the comments!
