I was sure I couldn't have children, but my wife suddenly got pregnant.

Unfortunately, not all people have have. Someone takes it for granted and lives on. And someone decides to adopt a child, and that’s fine too! What should I do if my wife suddenly becomes pregnant? Whether it is a miracle, or perhaps a banal betrayal, today we will deal with our new history together.



I met my future wife when I was at university. It was love at first sight, and I knew I would marry this girl. Ira became the closest person to me: the best friend, ideological inspirer and motivator, passionate mistress. Next to her, I felt like a real man who would do anything for the good of his family.



I have never trusted anyone in my life more than Ira. And when I went to the army, I was sure she would wait for me. That's what happened. I will always remember that period as the hardest. I was 24 years old when I found out I had lost the chance to have children. I won't go into details. I think you know what a person might feel at this moment. Ira supported me, but I felt guilty for not being able to have a baby with me.



For the past 5 years, we have been living soul to soul. They tried not to talk about children. I was building a career in business, Ira was developing in a more creative direction. It would be fine, but recently my wife told me she was pregnant.

What do I do? I was just shocked and didn’t find anything to say. Ira did not say a word about my problem, as if she had simply forgotten that I could not have children. I don't know what to do. I do not want to suspect my beloved wife of treason. But how else could she get pregnant?



I told my mother about my experiences. She was just in shock because she was always crazy about my wife. My mother advised me to go to the doctor and be sure to report everything to Ira. I may have to take a paternity test.



I see Ira just glowing with happiness, because she always dreamed of becoming a mother. And I don't find a place for myself, I became very irritable. My wife tried to talk to me to find out what was going on. But every time I restrain myself, so as not to cause her a scandal. Where can I find the strength to talk to her honestly?

From the editorial office, the hero of today's history was in a difficult situation. Absorbed by his own experiences, he cannot pull himself together and can be understood! But we think it's reckless of him to accuse his wife of treason.



No matter how frightening the diagnosis, which a man learned at the age of 24, he does not always put an end to the possibility of having children. Indeed, in medical practice, there are many situations where a miracle happens. But to find out if this is the case, you need to contact specialists and pass all the necessary checks.

We're sure that if a man talks to his wife and they go to the hospital together, everything will fall into place. What do you say?

What would you do if you were the hero of the story? You may have experienced similar problems in real life. Share your experience in the comments!

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