The same day I changed the locks so that my husband could not get into the apartment, fortunately it was not registered with me.

Alas, not all unions are destined to exist happily ever after. Rash decisions or trivial naivety when choosing a partner can lead to divorce. Apparently, this mistake was made by Anna. She believes she and Vadim have the wrong family.



The wrong family Anna and Vadim I decided to file for divorce. Of course, after only a year and a half of marriage, it may sound like a hasty decision. “How can you not save your family?” or “give a second chance” Of course, there is always a chance. But it will be the wrong family if only one person tries in a couple.



I married Vadim for love. At least I thought it was love and that it was mutual. Officially becoming a wife, I became a classic owner of the house. Cooking, cleaning and other duties were on me. My husband didn't help. On weekends, he was not at home.

I was under the influence of my mother. She has played the same role for many years. I have to get used to it. Men are like that. They need to take a break from their family from time to time. I didn't argue.



Family life friends said the opposite. If a man really loves his wife, he wants to spend more time with her. Meanwhile, I felt very lonely watching Vadim sitting at a computer or a smartphone. When I said we should spend more time together, he was surprised. Is it not enough that we are always in the same apartment? Why don't we go from room to room by hand?

My mother-in-law said that men do not know how to express emotions. Therefore, I should not be offended by Vadim. Soon we will have a baby and Vadim will have to support the whole family on his own. He can be understood.



When I gave birth to a son, my husband was not on discharge. He didn't call or pick up. From the hospital I was met by my parents, father-in-law and friends. My mother-in-law reassured me for a while. She said that Vadim is now with friends celebrating the birth of the first child. He'll sleep and come back.

But the next day Vadim did not appear and did not make contact. There was a girl who made contact. She wrote me on social media and introduced herself as the sister of a girl my husband is dating. As evidence, she sent a photo of Vadim with a stranger.

She told me that right now my husband and her sister are resting together at the cottage of a mutual acquaintance. She decided to open her eyes and help her sister.



The same day I changed the locks. The apartment was mine, and Vadim was not registered in it, so he wouldn't be able to open it even with the help of the police.

Vadim arrived in 2 days. At first I just tried to open the lock, then knocked and called. Then he went to his parents. After a while, my mother-in-law came. I let her in and showed her everything I had seen the day before. The mother-in-law began to claim that it was clearly a hoax and Photoshop. Someone is just trying to destroy our family. I didn't see the point. I reported that I was filing for divorce.



After that, both my mother-in-law and my mother tried to convince me to change my mind. Vadim and I have a family after all. What doesn't happen in the family? You have to be able to forgive.

Is it a family when one does not want to be part of it? Maybe according to the documents, yes, but in practice, the whole farce is not a real family. I do not want to take part in this and continue to claim the title of wife of such a man.

The wrong family: did Anna do the right thing by finally deciding to divorce? Was it worth it to suffer so much indifference of the husband? Or is this family relationship the norm?