What a woman owes to a man she sits on her neck

What should a woman do to a man with whom she builds a serious relationship? Living together for modern couples is more a burden than a joy. Why is this happening? Because for a long time there was a patriarchy, where men and women clearly followed the rules of behavior in society and in the family circle. And now, you see, women have equal rights with men in most countries. But that doesn’t exempt them from “women’s” jobs.



We both go to work, marital duty is a sacred thing, but household chores, please, this is not a man's business. What's a man's business then, gentlemen? Suppose both the man and the woman in the family work equally. Have approximately the same income and come at the same time from work.



What does a man do? He turns on his computer and waits for his wife to cook dinner. What does a woman do? Making dinner. Subconsciously, she realizes that after work, you can relax together and demand dinner, making endless arguments, and ultimately remain hungry and angry. After all, even if a man does not support a woman, but earns less than her, he still requires dinner, care, attention, comfort.



How come men value themselves above all else? While women continue to disparage themselves and give in everything to the stronger sex for the common good. Men don’t take housework seriously, especially now that you just have to push the button and the tech will do it for you. The multi-cooker will cook, the machine will wash, the robot vacuum cleaner. With this stupid argument, they won't lift a finger to push that button.



You can argue that in love and harmony people share responsibilities, know how to negotiate and do everything together as partners. But if everyone honestly admits why he married, then interesting motives emerge.



Someone easier to live in the house of a wealthy husband, and have to silently take over all life. Someone wants homemade patties and ironed shirts, and he is ready to provide for this person. Love is a beautiful feeling that will not last long. You can love a person endlessly and indulge him in everything, but be the most deeply unhappy. Then it is not love, but dependence, disrespect for yourself. You can not put anyone on a pedestal and sacrifice your youth, time, health, if you do not reciprocate.



So what does a woman owe a man? The answer lies in personal motives. If you stand up and admit to each other honestly, as each of the partners is comfortable to live, in most cases it turns out that people are selfish, and no one is willing to sacrifice their time for the other. By the age of 40, people understand this, they soberly assess their capabilities, goals and desires. And if these desires do not coincide with the loved one, their paths diverge sooner or later.



And that's okay. Healthy selfishness and self-respect eliminates all people who only want to receive and give nothing in return. It shouldn't be. I truly believe that there are people who want the same thing together, understand each other half-spokenly and share life honestly, without relying on prehistoric conventions about male and female duty. If the worldview of people coincides, they live happily ever after, and there will never be a question that someone owes someone something. But if views and values differ, then people should also diverge and not impose their vision of the world on each other. Do you think the couple has responsibilities to each other?