What awaits a man who does not provide for a family Bashny.Net

A man must provide for a woman. Half of humanity will agree with this statement and half will object. But psychologist Oleg Silavsky explained why a man is obliged to support a woman for his own good. In the modern world, where men and women exchange roles, they lose the meaning of existence.



The man has to provide "Imagine a house on the edge of the forest." There is a man and a woman, five children. The social roles here are understandable. A man will hunt and a woman will raise children. Things are different in the modern world. We live in comfortable apartments, and everyone is trying to make a living. But the archetypal role of a person remains the same, if people do not follow it, social and psychological problems begin, explains Oleg Silavsky.



The psychologist is convinced that in modern society there is a complete mess due to the fact that women try on the roles of men, going to work and forgetting that they are intended for the birth and upbringing of children. Men do not want to be responsible for the well-being of the whole family and lose the right to call themselves men.



The biological function of men is to take care of women and their children. So he has to fully support the woman. If before the care manifested itself in the game caught, now everything is measured in financial stability. A man is a warrior, a protector, a patron. He can fulfill his purpose, or he can act differently, then he will face unpleasant consequences.



Oleg Silavsky also believes that every man should have a job. It's not work, it's business. Thanks to him, a man develops spiritually. Often women inspire men to exploits, and therefore they are the second priority for men. For the sake of a woman, a man will develop, build a house, move up the career ladder. And if both he and she resist their nature, then instead of a happy peaceful life, they will face depression, bad habits, and job loss.



The ideal family consists of a man who does not know where money is spent, and a woman who does not know where it comes from. Oleg Silavsky says that women are the best source of investment. If a man invests in her, he shows that he is ready to take care of her. Then, being confident in the future, a woman without a doubt gives birth to a man heir.



Then a woman spends money on home improvement, coziness. Men do not know how to manage money. He will receive a prize, for example, spend on a console or something stupid, for himself. And a woman always knows that in the house you need to hang curtains, buy bedding, choose a dresser for things and so on. In a union, men and women complement each other and enjoy harmony in the family if they follow their nature. Men are always eager to explore the world, and women are good at taking care of their heroes.



“A woman by nature is not intended for physical exertion.” Well, she can't carry 20kg boxes all day. She cannot build a career, it is not a female way of life. She should have a favorite activity. And if it makes a profit, all will be for it. It’s okay if the hobby doesn’t make money. It should bring pleasure, a woman should not earn, says the psychologist.



According to the psychologist, the psyche of women is focused not on the extraction of money, but on motherhood and femininity, which they lose trying to earn. Housework is also a great thing. Oleg Silavsky probably follows his own convictions. But there are many women who disagree with his patriarchal attitudes. After all, today it is not easy for a woman to trust a man, everyone for himself. Do you think a man should provide for his wife?