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When the marriage cracks at the seams and there is no hope for a happy life together, both spouses think about divorce. However, a foggy future with litigation, division of property, moving and subsequent loneliness frightens everyone.

But what to do if the husband has turned from a breadwinner and a defender into a real threat to his wife, what to do if the feelings have cooled, what to do if the spouses do not understand how to continue living under one roof?



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Today's edition. "Site" He will tell you how to ease divorce according to the method of the famous psychologist Mikhail Labkovsky. These tips have helped thousands of people survive divorce and save face.

How to live after a divorce In marriage, people change. They get used to their spouse, to a quiet lifestyle, to obligations and conveniences. Divorce ruins everything. Man has to learn to live again. And it's scary. So, divorceYou have to prepare for it correctly.





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1. Don't try to change everything in an instant.
   Take a pause and decide where you will live, what you will do and how to arrange your life after the divorce. It is much easier to break the old way of life, if you can at least approximately imagine the future.
   
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2. Get support.
   Relatives, friends, new acquaintances are people who will support you even in the most difficult times. Emotionally dealing with divorce and subsequent changes will be much easier if there are interesting, positive, inspiring people.
   
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3. Prepare yourself psychologically.
   Money will not solve all the problems that come with divorce. You should be psychologically prepared for change. And even if parting with the hated soul mate looks like a real relief, it traumatizes the psyche. In order not to break under the pressure of heavy thoughts, you should consult a psychologist and restore order in your head.
   
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Conversations with friends and loved ones will help calm down, look at the situation from the outside. But do not rush to cling to other people’s advice, even if it is given from the heart. Every person will judge based on their experience. What to do in a divorceYou should determine yourself, based on your feelings.

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It is better not to bring the family to a breakup and save the marriage, but as the inexorable statistics show, every second marriage ends in divorce. And this happens more often not because of lack of money or incompatibility of characters, but because of a lack of understanding how to save the family. No wonder they say that both are to blame for the separation.

We have already told you why most “example” girls divorce by the age of 30, and raise a child, and sometimes more than one, alone. That knowledge would help. mutual understanding in many families.

What do you think about preparing for divorce? Be brave if you have something to share.