On the eve of half a dozen decided to get married again, but I am afraid to move in with a new husband. Bashny.Net

Should you tie the knot in adulthood? As with many such questions, there is no clear answer. Many women think that getting married again after 40 is a bad idea. Others say they found happiness at that age. But the heroine of our story is still undecided, how to be and what to respond to his cavalry.



Editorial "Site" It tells the story of a woman who is not sure if she should get married and move in with her admirer.

In three months I will be hit by half a nickel, and my life somehow suddenly hits the key. And, as my friend says, he hits right on the head. Eight years ago, I divorced my husband after fifteen years of marriage. I am fed up with family life, eternal quarrels with my mother-in-law and reproaches about what kind of mistress I am.



Then I swore to get involved with men. I decided to devote myself to the children. My daughter and son-in-law live with me and my beloved granddaughters. I'm the only one who runs the house. Young people work, save for their own housing. I'm just happy to take care of them.

But a year ago, I met a man for my own trouble. His name is Volodya. The kindest man. She cares, gives flowers, carries what is said on her hands. It was quiet and quick for us all to get started. To be honest, girls, I have never been so happy in my life. Even believed in nonsense like “just a man you didn’t have normal”.



And I'll tell you, that certainly didn't happen. He gives me butterflies in my stomach like an 18-year-old girl. And the baba's gonna hit half a pound soon! And recently Volodya asked me to get married. How romantic it was, words cannot convey. And candles, and romantic setting, ring, knee and the whole set.



Married again or...? Then I agreed without hesitation. But then I started thinking about how we could go forward. Volody has an old mother with whom he lives in the same apartment. Nothing, but my mother-in-law doesn't like me. The ex ate a slab I still haven't got rid of. But then I was younger, I could be quiet somewhere, flexible somewhere. But it's hard to break yourself at 50.



I love writing and I am finishing my third book. And when I have inspiration, I can write all day long. Inspiration is exciting, and I write without worrying about whether the apartment is clean, if the food is cooked, etc. Volodya is quite satisfied with this, but whether his mother will be happy with this is unclear.

And when I think about it, I don’t want to start this whole story with my mother-in-law. I was scared, I was scared, I was scared. And I don't even know what to do, get married again or run with my tail clenched? I love Volodya, it is good for me with him, but I am afraid that my mother-in-law will not be happy with me. And we can't live separately, because he won't want to leave his old mother alone. What do we do, dear ones? Help with advice or a kind word.



We think that the heroine of this story should cast aside her doubts and fears. It would be nice to first get acquainted with the future mother-in-law and find out what kind of person she is. Perhaps all these problems will not be. Something is stopping a woman from getting married again. She may not have forgotten her first marriage, or she may not want to leave her comfort zone.



Either way, it makes sense to at least try. You can always go back to your apartment and keep an eye on your adult children. However, they are actively raising money for their own housing, which means that someday they will leave. There is a great chance that a woman will be left alone. So why not try to create your happiness while you have the opportunity?

What do you think about that? Should the heroine of our story get married again and move in with a man?