Karmic marriage. Greetings from the past.

Ask yourself honestly, I admit I karmic marriage? And now, please believe me ...



Ask yourself honestly, I admit I karmic marriage? And now, please believe me, karmic relationship - it's not such a rare phenomenon, as it may seem at first glance. The concept of "karma" comes from the East, but that it determines is not something alien to us. We all know the proverb like "What goes around, comes around" or "As the call, so the echo." The doctrine of karma says absolutely the same thing!


Karmic marriage - a union of two people who were intimately familiar in a past life, but they were some debts to each other. In previous incarnations, they could be husband and wife, relatives, parents, each other, lovers, or even enemies. And in this life fate brought them together again, that they gave each other debts and fulfilled their karma (penance, fix bugs). After the union of two loving hearts - one of the biggest in the world purgatory, where our character and outlook is severely tested.

All too confusing? Let me explain with an example.

Suppose, in a past life you were a guy that soul in you looked for and wanted to marry you. But you left him because you had his eye on the son of your boss. Marriage him promise you mountains of gold: the promotion of the career ladder, trips abroad, comfortable existence ... And you, considering these arguments very convincing, left someone who loved you more than life ...

Be sure in this life, certainly there a similar situation and it will be repeated as long as you do not learn the lessons and do not do what is necessary. Like in a computer game: the second level, the second attempt.

However, before marriage one does not think about the bad karma and is usually not visible. And for good reason. Already own arguments that guide people in marriage, much can be said about the later life of the spouses.

So blind passion. This is a classic example of karmic marriage. Consider it a concrete example.

In a past life Nicholas L. was a budding young scientist, but he loved so much his bride Anna, that she gave up for the sake of scientific research and did not justify his vocation. In this life, he is addicted to work and career, and women trying to avoid. Soul of Nicholas L. remembers the experience of past mistakes, but because the man subconsciously afraid of marriage, others are afraid of water, confined spaces or heights.

But the laws of karma can not be undone, so in this life, our hero finds himself in a similar situation. His own attempt to escape from the love of overlap unique mechanism of blind passion: Nicholas L. falls like a boy lives his beloved, she raves. As a result, the protective barriers are crumbling, fear recedes into the background ... It would seem, live so rejoice! But no. After a while, our hero must once again face the same problem as in the previous life. Again have to choose between love and vocation, and to take the right decision, which in this case looks like this: love and the work it is possible to combine, it is impossible to betray themselves and give up his vocation.

Another classic example - it's time. If you get married (married), not because loved with all his heart, but because "it's time" or because all the friends-friends have long created a family - this should alert you. From a biological point of view, you just reached marriageable age and are ready to create their own family and the birth of children (often unconsciously to themselves).

From a karmic point of view, there is a desire to get married at that age, when you did in a past life, especially if the marriage was unsuccessful. In other words, the mistakes of the past life karma delayed, waiting for their fix, and it seems that the fate of a man pushing for action - try one more time.

A marriage of convenience. Epidemic weddings, usually begins in the last year of the institute. When the old ties are broken, change the rhythm of life, girls and boys warm hope that the two of us are not so scary to start a new stage of life. They are looked after by a suitable partner - poperspektivnee, richer, with an apartment, a car ... however, such a marriage can be happy only when between young people have feelings and spiritual kinship. If the decision is made solely for mercenary reasons, the likelihood of a happy marriage is equal to zero. After a karmic point of view such a marriage - is nothing but a desire to evade the problems, pass them on the shoulders of her husband (wife).

Desire and understandable and legitimate, that's just really one of our problems for us will not solve. And from whatever adversity we were hiding (loneliness, lack of money, parental diktat), they will certainly overtake us. And so it will continue for as long as we do not find the strength to solve the problem.

Most of all you value in her husband money - be sure sooner or later he will lose them, and you will be left with nothing. Do you like his position and reliability? Alas, not far off the day when he will be out of work ... And it's not the whims of fate-villain, it's karmic lessons. Each will have to go your way, and a lot to learn.

Many young girls are married to pop up as a protest, or from a desire to get rid of excessive parental control.

And do not fall into the lower bondage, but now - from her husband. The fact that dependence on anyone else they "are" in themselves and "produce" it in the world. Even those who he has never been home despot, made them only because of the fact that you do unconsciously waiting. You will be left to sigh and say, "Well, you can see I have the karma!»

Me! You become a person! Learn how not to depend on someone else opinion. Then your life will change for the better.

For the ladies at the age or with a child in her arms incentive to marriage can be ... fear: "What if a year will be too late?", "Who will I need?" "Yes, and a child needs a father ...»

Sometimes there and such an argument: "I am tired of waiting for the prince, let there be at least some kind of a husband." In other words, this is the case when a girl marries not for the one who wants to, but because of who came to hand.

If after a while it will be able to discover the hidden virtues of the spouse, the marriage will be successful. But most likely, it will remember all my life, that she agreed to compromise and married a man is not his level.

It is possible that a few years after her marriage she actually met her prince. And it's not a bad joke of fate, and the law of karma - everyone attracts the circumstances and the people of whom he dreams. Just not everyone has the patience to wait for the reception of his "request».

Let's say you - a young girl (woman) in good position with a good salary, apartment, car. But all this does not bring you happiness, your dream just about family and kids. In this case, you - or the person whom psychologists call "nesamodostatochnosti personality" or - "old soul." To distinguish one type from another simple enough.

Nesamodostatochnosti people believe that they can be happy only when they need someone. They always complain about the amount of trouble that to themselves and hanged.

And the "old souls", from the standpoint of esoteric themselves developed strongly enough, but come into this world to help others. "Old Soul" on what does not complain, on the contrary, it is constantly coming cried others. Encouragement and care.

Now let me draw conclusions about the features of karmic marriage:

Marriage was a surprise to the partners themselves. Surprisingly, because according to the rules, usages and practices "they are not a couple." They may be, for example, very different social status, environment, financial status or age difference.
In many respects they signed, "fatal" and predetermined. For example, the relationship looks like a incompatible with a happy coexistence. They can constantly quarrel and swear, but at the same time simply does not represent life without each other.
Spirits or relationship ... one of the partners. Such a situation in the family is always accompanied by suffering one of the partners. Rather, in this life, they simply changed places, and now one feels what the other had in a previous life.
The absence of children. The sign for the future of the closed nature. Married connect not only two people but also two kinds. Such relationships exist for partners to rethink their own traits that race does not want to transfer to the next generation. If rethinking happens that most often the marriage is dissolved.
The health problems of one of the partners. Such a situation is created for awakening the higher aspects of love, such as compassion and care, which could not occur in a happy situation.
Marriage occurs unexpectedly and quickly, after which all communication with other people, including the related broken move to another city or abroad.
Very fast married after dating a couple of weeks or menshe.V such a relationship, everything happens as if the script and the couple understands his new position only after some time. Prior to that, they moved as if the forces that they were not aware of.
Rarely, but it happens that people live together for many years and can not imagine life without each other. They are not in love, they love truly, taking a partner as he is, with all its advantages and disadvantages.
From a karmic point of view of such spouses have passed all the tests, we worked out all the lessons, correct any errors and now enjoy each other, appreciating every moment allotted to them. Their fates are intertwined, they are bound by strong threads, ties, rather than chains or shackles.

A tempting prospect? So the work on themselves! And remember that karma - it is not a dogma and not a curse. She's just a result of how you have lived in past lives and live in the present. Correct the error, go through life with an open heart, giving love. And then you will certainly find your happiness.

Author - Tamara Panina

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