Who should a woman care about first?

Women's fates are difficult, especially if women do not know how to allocate their resources and set priorities. Exhaustion, fatigue and sacrifice. This is what girls get in an attempt to make their surroundings happier. How do modern women live and why do they need to rethink their way of life for their own good?

How often have you seen examples of women who use all their energy in one direction? And they give so selflessly that they completely forget about the much needed restoration. But sooner or later resources run out, and then comes the mental crisis. He can express himself in different ways. Most often, depression occurs, followed by many physical troubles.



A friend of mine once told me an interesting story. It said The princess who was locked in the tower.. Everything according to the laws of the genre: strict parents and a prince with whom their daughter was in love. To escape, the princess used the help of fabulous assistants.

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Each of them asked for something in return. Some - the beauty of the princess, others - her youth, others - cheerfulness of spirit. When the girl finally got to her chosen one, she was already helpless and ugly old woman. Of course, the prince did not refuse her, but they did not stay together for long. A few days after escaping from the tower, the princess died.



So are modern women who give everything for others and forget about themselves. For example, mothers who devote all their time and energy to the child. They get so used to it that when the child becomes independent, they cannot let it go. Moreover, they tend to blame their son or daughter for not giving enough. And yet the children eventually begin to live their lives, and the mother is left with nothing. After all, she has no work or hobbies, and her personal life also does not work out.



Another example is mature ladies who frantically wash their house, the apartment of children, and then go to the country. They've forgotten. enjoy They only live on debt. But the habit of such household heroism leads to sad consequences in the form of disappointment in life and poor health.



For example, someone dedicates himself to his husband. Many women manage to work two jobs, clean the house, follow the children, and even emotionally serve their partner. This is a bad habit that is expressed in "all by yourself"It does not only lead to physical exhaustion.



People get used to the fact that mother, grandmother or wife do not need help. Over time, this idea becomes something established. Now It's not a woman's choice.It is now her duty and duty. Why help someone who has refused help so many times? Why help someone who always does everything?

Of course, the attractiveness of such women is significantly reduced. And to hell with her, attractiveness! The desire to enjoy life, laugh, monitor their appearance and well-being go to such a distant plane that in the end they disappear from the radar. It's all because misprioritization. You do not need to beat up on children, husband or parents. But let it all be in second place, and let it always be you. Only a rested, joyful and full of energy woman can give something to her loved ones.