Why women with apartments are in no hurry to get married

All the girls dreamed of a prince on a white horse who would take them to his kingdom one day. Years pass, girls grow up and get used to relying only on themselves. Modern men and women equally build a career, earn and provide for their family. Is gender inequality behind us years ago or not?



Anyway, both men and women are quite self-sufficient without any marriage ties. Why is this happening? Why don’t women who can afford to get married?



The editorial staff became interested in why, solving the housing issue, women flatly refuse to marry. We found interesting stories of young people who are happy to live in their apartment, and do not need the support of a man.



Housing is a hot topic. If you have your own nest, you are a very happy person. It turns out that earning on an equal footing with men, women do not see the point of sharing a home with them.



Strong and independent "Why do I need a man who can't take care of me?" the young businesswoman exclaims nervously. I bought a one-bedroom apartment in St. Petersburg for a mortgage. I was a loner when I bought it. Then I thought that I would get married, we would have our own house, and we would rent this apartment. I did not set myself the goal of finding a man with real estate, because together you can also save for an apartment or a house. I don’t have a husband, but I’m starting to wonder if I need him at all. When I pay my mortgage, why would I have a man sitting around my neck?



Interesting logic. Are there really so many despicable men for women with apartments? There are adult men who flatly refuse to marry a girl who has less income. History #2 is a clear proof of this.

If you look at social networks and dating sites, you can see that many of them are looking for the right couple. It’s not just chemistry, what romance! There are suitors who put up a list of requirements for potential brides:



“I am a handsome, decent man from Moscow. I have my own apartment, and I am looking for a girl with an apartment. I don't understand why people stick to me and girls with apartments don't want a serious relationship. Is it possible to find only a beggar in a wife?! – this attitude towards women is difficult to comment on. Your eyebrow twitches, even if you haven't been a feminist before. Well, hopefully this man will find his betrothed dowry.



A very wealthy woman married a man 10 years younger than her. “Of course, he settled with me, where did the young guy get the funds for real estate?” In fact, I have my own business, and he took out a loan for his business. A few years later, we moved from a small provincial town to a million-dollar city. They sold the apartment and bought a more spacious apartment.”



The first thing that comes to mind is that material values are rarely combined with sincere feelings. We are all different and think in different categories. You can condemn a thousand times someone’s distorted worldview, say that a woman’s place in the kitchen, and a man should earn. And vice versa. Our editorial staff is 90% romantic, and we firmly believe that love has no place in marriage of convenience. If people sincerely love each other, they can live a happy and long life even without an apartment in the city center, even without a stamp in the passport. What do you think?