What justifies the mother-in-law that the sixth year does not give the daughter-in-law any gifts

“Since my daughter-in-law rejected the gift I bought for the birth of my grandson, I completely abandoned the idea of giving this ungrateful girl something else,” Lidia Pavlovna proudly said to her friend Natasha. “I’m not sorry, but I have pride too. Raz said that without my presents will do, so let and do, continued his story outraged mother-in-law.



And really, how to behave mother-in-law, if the daughter-in-law always accuses her? And what gifts made the daughter-in-law ask that her mother-in-law not be spent on their purchase? Let's find out together!

Gift for the birth of a grandson "I don't give her anything, everyone is unhappy." I have never received a good word of thanks from her. And the silverware that they gave to their wedding with their son did not like, and bed linen for housewarming did not please...



And when my grandson was born, I bought him a flap. A beautiful, dovey, half-retirement has gone. My daughter-in-law told me not to buy anything. Says I have no taste, no mind, they say, the old woman does not understand what a young family needs. And the son agrees with her. “Don’t spend money on these gifts, mother, we have everything, and what is not, we will buy.”



Natalia Rudolfovna only listened and wondered: “Did you say so directly about the mind?” "No, of course not." She'd be rude to me. But I in the intonation she caught the message, — snorted in response Lydia Pavlovna.

But the most hurtful thing is that now, as my eldest daughter also made me happy with her granddaughter, my daughter-in-law began to reproach me, saying that I love her child more. All because I gave the baby gold earrings. For the future, of course. Let your daughter stay with you while you are...



The daughter-in-law saw this and the scandal rolled out that her son got a flap, and the daughter of her sister-in-law jewelry presented. And that's after everything she said to me for my gifts!



During these few years, while Sashenka was growing up, I always tried to please my grandson. I bought sweets and toys. And here are the accusations.



I don’t even know how to resolve this conflict. I do not want to quarrel with children, but I do not want to tolerate such antics. Maybe not give anything to anyone at all? Or give secret gifts to grandchildren? Find out how to do the right thing...