Why modern women life without a man does not seem cloudy

The family is the unit of society! That was once said and seems to still be said today. According to some analysts and researchers, in the modern world, the family is one person. So much has now moved into the virtual environment, and the laws of consumption signal that it is more cost-effective to be a loner. Here she is, long awaited. manhood.



Editorial "Site" He also has a little research on this. Women are increasingly refusing to live with another man. Especially if they’ve been married before and gone through a breakup. We come to the conclusion that another emotional investment in life with a man now does not look as attractive as before.

Such stories are many, you can quote quite often, densely and a lot. There are also many comments under such publications. Apparently, there is a kind of change and revaluation of values on a rather tangible social level. I wonder if you'd agree with us. And here's the standard text.



I have not lived with my first husband for a long time, divorced. While raising children, thoughts were quite different. Then the eldest daughter married and went to live in Germany. junior He said that he would now be responsible for himself, rent an apartment and work. I was left on my own, there was no need for child care, I was focused on myself.

A few sessions at a beauty salon, a couple of walks into the light, and here it is, male attention. He came to me, so he's a boyfriend. I had a few of them, but since I am a decent girl, I chose one of them. I had no special requirements for him, just a pretty nice and calm man.



We met like this for several months, sweets, cafes, went to the movies once, and he suggested that I move in, live together. Well, I think the guy's serious, but am I ready for a new relationship? So I decided. The first few days were perfect, but what happened next?

As they say, everything is and put in its place. As I continue to work as an accountant in a large enterprise, I always have enough work. I have full-timeSometimes you have to wait, there are urgent things. I don’t have time to clean and cook, I can only do it on weekends.



My new man lives on a free schedule, has plenty of time. Income - rents out two apartments and works there, then at will. So I come back from work late, and in the wash, yesterday's dishes, things are scattered, the refrigerator is empty. Delivery is good, but not day-to-day.

I understand that cleaning and cooking should be on me. I tell him that, I'm offended. I make a remark that it would be nice to clean up and so on, he said, "This is my apartment, you're here to visit, so you'd better look after me." I'm the boss here. Really?



I told him, you know what, honey? What kind of shit did you give up on me then? I also have an apartment, so I go back to it and will live there myself, according to my own rules, without a dog belt weighing a hundred kilograms. I can eat in the dining room, we have good food, and spend money on your satiety - sorry, it should work in two ways. Goodbye! That’s how two weeks of my life made it clear to me that I could live well alone. I was afraid.

I don't think it's a hype. In the comments, many ladies echo, they say, and really, why is he needed? Former husband. I was a close man, he is no more, so why should I bend my neck for the sake of a stranger? Be sure to write in the comments what you think about this and whether there is a principled agreement with this state of affairs.



Life without a man It might be sweet, I admit. But, as a man, I can only say in defense that not everyone is like that, there are normal ones. Everyone has their own life experience. From us, a bonus material about why some women still strive to build a family and what motivates them in this direction. We wish you a good mood!