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Each of us has only 3 attempts to fall in love
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Throughout our life we fall in love and break up, sometimes to converge again. People come into our life and go, but we are experiencing such UPS and downs, which even could not think.
But psychologists say that we can fall in love only three times. And each in its own way an important and even necessary.
Fairytale love
Often the first love comes when we are still very young. It seems the one about which we read in fairy tales. We idealize it and believe it for life.
This is the time when we do something we are waiting for society or family. We do not pay attention to small troubles and can sacrifice their own principles for the sake of the relationship because deep down we believe that it should be.
How look our relationship from the outside, for us more important than what we really feel.
Such love teaches us that it is important to look not only around, but also each other.
A complicated love
The second love of our life is the most difficult. We think we've learned from previous experiences, and choose as companion a completely different person, but there it was.
We can manipulate, lie, or even hurt. We cling to any opportunity to improve relations, but each attempt turns into an even bigger failure. It's a real drama with occasional moments of enlightenment.
And again something is more important than our senses, it is only now the endless attempts to establish a sick relationship.
Such love teaches us that it is important to be loved in return.
Mature love
The third love is that which we can not wait. It appears in our life itself not as we had thought, does not seem ideal. But it's a genuine relationship, which differs extraordinary ease and which cannot be explained with words.
Now we are deprived of any expectations, no illusions about what needs to be the man we loved, and accept it for what it is. And importantly, exactly the same way he treats us.
Such love teaches us to be real, it doesn't have to be perfect.
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According to the materials of Cosmopolitan
See also
14 comics on how to recognize the very real love
15 "overheard" stories about where love begins
via www.adme.ru/svoboda-narodnoe-tvorchestvo/15-podslushannyh-istorij-o-tom-s-chego-nachinaetsya-lyubov-1240015/
But psychologists say that we can fall in love only three times. And each in its own way an important and even necessary.
Fairytale love
Often the first love comes when we are still very young. It seems the one about which we read in fairy tales. We idealize it and believe it for life.
This is the time when we do something we are waiting for society or family. We do not pay attention to small troubles and can sacrifice their own principles for the sake of the relationship because deep down we believe that it should be.
How look our relationship from the outside, for us more important than what we really feel.
Such love teaches us that it is important to look not only around, but also each other.
A complicated love
The second love of our life is the most difficult. We think we've learned from previous experiences, and choose as companion a completely different person, but there it was.
We can manipulate, lie, or even hurt. We cling to any opportunity to improve relations, but each attempt turns into an even bigger failure. It's a real drama with occasional moments of enlightenment.
And again something is more important than our senses, it is only now the endless attempts to establish a sick relationship.
Such love teaches us that it is important to be loved in return.
Mature love
The third love is that which we can not wait. It appears in our life itself not as we had thought, does not seem ideal. But it's a genuine relationship, which differs extraordinary ease and which cannot be explained with words.
Now we are deprived of any expectations, no illusions about what needs to be the man we loved, and accept it for what it is. And importantly, exactly the same way he treats us.
Such love teaches us to be real, it doesn't have to be perfect.
Photos on the preview Block 2 Pictures
According to the materials of Cosmopolitan
See also
14 comics on how to recognize the very real love
15 "overheard" stories about where love begins
via www.adme.ru/svoboda-narodnoe-tvorchestvo/15-podslushannyh-istorij-o-tom-s-chego-nachinaetsya-lyubov-1240015/
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