The perfect woman— family or career Bashny.Net

Emancipation has become one of the distinctive features of modern society. Women who fought so hard for their rights and equality with men, did their to achieve. Contemporary girls and women often struggle two principles:

1. Need a romantic girl, who dreams about a Prince, a beautiful wedding, a large and happy family.

2. Experience ladies realistici that understands that hope for a successful and happy marriage at the same time not worth it, and better learn, get a good job, start working and earn money.

Men who so long resisted, having calmed down and thought about it, gladly agreed to give women the freedom and opportunity to do what they want. Most women wanted independence, they are tired of being "Adam's rib", "staff" and people "second class", whose opinion does not count.

Battle of the sexes Now that women have voting rights, can build houses, factories, ships, to guide the production, to engage in politics and did not do household chores. Can not fulfill the "marital duty", not to submit to the will of men, but, as usual, for that fought for it and ran. Together with the generation of independent and successful women, increased generation not adapted to anything men boys. To get them in a family, seems dangerous and hopeless.

Choose a career.In that case, if you really need to implement in the work, professional growth, and you barlite unrealized ideas.

Choose family.If your emancipation is just a way to prove to the man that you are doing better than he is. With this approach, the competition you'll hold even with the strongest opponent, though it is wise to use his abilities for the good of the family.

Desires and possibilities In childhood men watched as their mother, like workhorses, inject work, home and on the plot. All the time, including to get rid of hangover spouse. What could I do to the man does all the work a woman? For the simple reason that he does not believe that it is at least something in this life capable of. Future macho man was watching all these depressing paintings and absorbed, adopted the model of fatherly behaviour. This behavior is a "vegetable", "pet", which, well even if goes to some work where it performs mechanical action, from start to finish.

The women soldiers of labor, "the Stakhanov movement", ladies who care, the founder of class business women hope for themselves and live for themselves.

Choose a career.If it is obvious that your partner not satisfied with you personality and needs. Weird to build a relationship with someone who is only pity and indignation.

Choose family.If a man is quite able to perform their role, but does not do it because you take yourself of that.

Switch roles But, like it or not, nature is arranged so, tomorkeny and women can not live without each other. They still gravitate towards each other, looking for a couple and they do everything. Men instinctively want to be the first and main, and women to be cared for, looked after, treated tenderly and admired the beauty. The problem is that the real situation does not allow these roles to implement. Infantile men can not only take care of a woman, but even about yourself. And women, doing guy stuff, so ceased to be feminine and "involved" in a man's job that has lost its appeal. So now, many women are men unnoticed. Choose a career.If your job does not require you to abandon her female nature, does not change your spirit and do not break.

Choose family.If a career has to make in favor of stereotypes that do not deliver any joy.



Only one external component a little. So, what ultimately made women is a disaster for the classic model of the family institution. Many instead create a family and give birth to a baby, prefer to be single mothers, choosing insemination and in vitro fertilization. Child is, and men who would cause trouble, nervous disorders and financial loss – no. Perhaps this is one of the stages of evolution, and we need to adapt to trends and stuff, else, still, I hope that today's picture of the world is a lesson to society.

Everyone has their own role and purpose, but everyone should have the opportunity to choose – the way of the family and the home or life in the name of their own interests and ambitions. And in either case has its own pros and cons. But probably not in vain for centuries to be lone — explorers and inventors became one. Most people choose a family life — a society where only close and native people, love, respect and tolerance.

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