Relationships: 10 Signs of the Beginning of the End

Yes, it is often very difficult for us to give up a relationship with a loved one, but it happens that only by letting go of them and continuing to move forward, you can become stronger, wiser, and ultimately happier.

In this article, I’ve collected ten signs that it’s time to let go and keep moving on:
Someone wants you to be someone you are not. Don’t try to change your identity for anyone. It is wiser to lose someone by being yourself than to keep them by pretending to be someone else. And remember, it’s easier to heal a wounded heart than to pick up a broken personality. It is easier to fill the place in your life where the other person was than the place inside you where you were.

The words of this man are at variance with deeds, and very strongly. We all need someone who inspires us and helps us look to the future with hope. And if the person next to you has a completely opposite effect on you, if his words are constantly at odds with his deeds - well, it's probably time to end your relationship with him. Better to be alone than in a company like this. True friendship is the strongest of vows, silent, unwritten, but indestructible. Don’t listen too much to what other people say. Look at what they're doing. There are not many true friends in everyone’s life, but sooner or later you will find them.

You find yourself trying to make someone love you. Remember once and for all that it is impossible to make someone love us. And we shouldn't beg anyone to stay if they want to leave. This is the essence of true love: freedom. But with the end of love, life does not end. And know that although love sometimes leaves us for some reason, it always leaves something behind. If someone really loves you, they will never let you doubt it. Anyone can enter your life with the words “I love you,” but only those who tell the truth are willing to stay in it and prove how much they love you. Sometimes to find this person, we have to try, but it is worth it. Always.

Your personal relationship is based on physical attractiveness. Beauty is not just the look that makes people look at you, or the way others see you. That's what we live for. What defines us. What is hidden in the depths of your heart and that adds to our uniqueness. What makes us who we are is all these little things. And those who are attracted only to your pretty face or beautiful body, if they will stay close, it is unlikely for long. Those who see the beauty of your soul will never leave you.

Your trust is constantly betrayed. Love is when you give someone the chance to hurt you, but you trust them so much that you believe they won’t. And it can only end in one of two ways – either the relationship lasts the rest of your life, or you’ll learn that lesson for life. But any of these options are actually positive. You will either make sure that the person you trust is worthy of that trust, or you will have the opportunity to rid your life of it and look for another. And in the end, you will understand who is worth what, and who is the only one willing to risk everything for you. And believe me, a lot of people can surprise you.

You're underrated all the time. - Know your price! When you form a close relationship with someone who doesn’t respect you, you’re tearing away a piece of soul that will never grow back. For all of us, there comes a time when we should just give up and stop chasing some people. If someone wants you in their life, they will find a way to leave you there. Sometimes you should just let go of the person you are chasing and admit that you do not like his attitude towards you. If he wants to leave, let him go. Sometimes it's easier than trying to hold on. Yes, we find it difficult and painful... until we do. And then we ask ourselves, "Why didn't I do this sooner?"
You never talk heart to heart. Sometimes a quarrel can save your relationship, and silence can destroy it. Talk to people. Speak to them from the heart, so that you will not have any regrets afterward. You came into this world not to be happy, but to be honest and share your happiness with others.

You are constantly required to sacrifice your happiness. If you allow people to take more from you than give, your balance will turn negative faster than you realize. Try to figure out when to wrest the credit card of your life from greedy hands. It’s better to be alone but proud than to be in a relationship with someone who is constantly demanding that you sacrifice your own happiness and self-esteem.

You really don’t like your current situation, your lifestyle, your job, and so on.

- It’s better to fail at something you really like than to succeed at something you hate. Don’t let someone who has given up on their dreams deprive you of yours. The best thing you can do with your life is to follow your heart. Risk. Don’t take the path of least resistance just because you’re afraid of what might happen. Nothing will ever happen to you on this path. Take risks, make mistakes, learn from them – it’s worth it. Climbing to the top of the mountain is not easy, but when you get there, you will realize that it cost every drop of blood, tears and sweat.

You understand that the past does not let you go, and you continue to live it. Sooner or later, you will forget about the heartache, forget about what caused you to cry, and those who caused you pain. Sooner or later, you will realize that the key to happiness and freedom is not power, much less revenge, but letting life run its course and learning from it. In the end, the most important chapter in your life will not be the first, but the last chapter in which you will realize how well the whole story of your life has been written. So let go of the past, free yourself, and open your mind to opportunities that bring new relationships and invaluable experiences.

The only thing you should never let go of is hope. Remember what you deserve and keep moving forward. Believe me, one day all the pieces will come together. Your life will be filled with happiness and contentment, even if not quite as you imagined. And then you look back on your life, smile, and ask yourself, “How did I do it?”

Source: www.cluber.com.ua/lifestyle/lichnaya-zhizn/2014/10/10-priznakov-togo-chto-prishlo-vremya-otpustit-cheloveka/