Stage of satiety and 6 more stages of relationship development

7 stages of the relationship:

1. The chocolate phase or “chemistry of love” (lasts about 18 months).

When a man and a woman meet and fall in love with each other, their body produces certain things. hormoneswho color the world in colourful. At this point, the voice seems incomparable, any stupidity seems amazing. The person is in a state of drug intoxication.During this period, you should not make any decisions, since the effect of this drug will eventually end and everything will come back to normal.



2. The next stage is the phase of satiety.

Feelings calm down, you begin to soberly assess the pros and cons of your partner. You begin to get used to each other, behave more naturally and relaxed.



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3. The third phase is called disgust.

It is necessary for any long-term relationship. In the disgust phase There are fights. It's like you've been given a magnifying glass and you're concentrating on the flaws your partner has.The easiest and worst way out is divorce. What's wrong? It's that you're re-entering the marshmallow-chocolate phase with another partner.

There are people who only rotate in these three phases. In the Vedas, these phases are considered to be below the level of a civilized person, since you have not yet entered into a real relationship.

4. The next phase is patience.

The quarrels between the partners continue, but they are as fatal as in the previous period, so both know that when the quarrel is over, the relationship will be restored. If we make efforts to develop patience, we are rewarded with the development of reason. It's a law of nature. So, In this phase, we are given intelligence.



5. The fifth phase, Duty or Respect, is the first stage of love.

There was never love before. I'm starting to think not what he owes me, but what I owe him. Focusing on our responsibilities develops us..

6. The sixth phase is Friendship.

Friendship is a serious preparation for love.



7. The seventh phase is love.

Love is not a cheap thing. She's been there all her life. Love is learned through various life situations, and in long-term, intimate relationships. Love is not something that suddenly falls on our heads, for love we mature, abandoning the egoism within us.

Do we choose our parents? No, we love the ones we got.
Do we choose brothers and sisters? We must love those whom God has sent us. The only person we choose is our husband or wife.

Then the kids come to us. Do we choose them? No, we love those whom God has sent us, then children bring their daughters-in-law or suitors. Do we choose them? No, we must endure and love those whom God has sent us, expand our hearts and appreciate those who are with us.

Therefore, people who are going to divorce, first you need to get to know each other, then make friends, and then love each other. Most couples take it skeptically, but that's how we live.

As long as we think that love is a marshmallow in chocolate, we will not understand what love is.

Love is like six tastes, which have both sweet taste and salty and tart and astringent and sharp and even bitter.

We don’t have to demand anything from another person, we just have to be devoted to our love. Devotion is the main quality of love. As the Bible says, “Love never ceases.”

If we’re out of love, rest assured it hasn’t started yet.published

Author: Marina Targakova

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