If the relationship should remain a secret, you should not be in this relationship

The site publishes stunning excerpt from Regina Brett, "God never blinks." Stay away from the reach of men! "There was a period in my life - from twenty years and almost forty - when the men went through me like bread crumbs through a goose. In fact, I met with the same man, only the name has changed.

I realized it only when after the relationship with the one person I needed psychological help. It seemed that the young handsome guy who rolled up to me at work, trembles with the desire to meet with me. About three months he literally spinning around me. And just when I was ready to trust and remove its protection, he said he would not be able to go on a date with me on the weekend, because the city comes his bride. Someone who comes?

Yeah. He was engaged. I was once again the dish you want to devour the sly. I was furious. I'm thought of everything! How is it that I once again began to meet with non-free man?

This is the story of my life. Why do I have to repeat it again and again? That evening, when I said I did not want to see him, I wept, prayed and cried out to the universe: "Why do I always attract unavailable men?"

Universe replied: "Because you're afraid of the free".




Wow! It dawned on me: I am afraid that a man can stay. Why?
So I had not lived. To choose those who will not remain. Not available. Married, Engaged, Dating a friend living in another state, drunks or workaholics. Men who can not really belong to me. Good guys, that would still be there, scared me, and to cope with that fear helped me only a few years of treatment.

Physician, heal my very dark and deep wound, he gave me the basic rules of dating. The initial letters of their constituent word "stop." She wanted me to keep in mind four things, and the first - the most important.

The secret.
injury.
Sensations.
The Void.
It was a great starting point. Since that day, I realized that the most important quality that must be sought in the man - it is available for a relationship.

As soon as I laid eyes on someone, I immediately asked myself whether it is available for a relationship? If not, even not worth trying.
Eventually, I made my own advice about relationships:

Stay away from the reach of men.
There are no secrets.
Another friend of mine repeatedly returned to a married man, hoping he would leave her family and marry her. I kept saying to her: "If you marry a man who is unfaithful to his wife, then you marry a man who is unfaithful to his wife." The same rule holds true for men. If your girl does not tell his sister, mother, girlfriend or former that occurs to you, forget it. Were it not for the other secret airfield or garnish. If she can not be honest and says nothing about your connection, cast it. What do you want - an affair or a relationship?

Watch out dependencies.
< Be an attractive candidate.
Tell the world what you want from the satellite.
< Do not look at the wrapper.
self-perfection.
Rather than look for this or that Edistvennoe, stand one way or the only ... for yourself. Cutting your best, deepest, most authentic "self." Be attractive (-s) for themselves.

For all the world there is someone.


via www.cluber.com.ua/lifestyle/lichnaya-zhizn/2015/10/esli-otnosheniya-dolzhnyi-ostavatsya-v-sekrete-vyi-ne-dolzhnyi-ostavatsya-v-etih-otnosheniyah/