Why you never want to come back to the one who hurt you

It's time to finally common sense to take up and realize why you should never go back to someone who hurt you ...

There are some people that you like, but that "bad" for you, whether you have a serious relationship with them or is it just another affair.

There are some people in these insatiable compelling, namely that they are supposedly close to you, but at the same time close enough.

You fall face in the dirt, but not for the first time, and also not for the last time.

You love the moment when is displayed on your phone the name of that person. You are ready to go just to see her or his sincere smile. When you are not together, you're eager to see the look he or she is looking at you.

But you look at her or his eyes and see not the image that you would like.

You see the reflection of a feeling of remoteness, which suggests that he or she does not end up with you, and will never be, no matter how much you do not want that.

He or she can tell that you are beautiful and you want to believe it, because words make some impression on us, they are either hurt or give happiness.

Part of you looking for the pain that makes you the man. This intricate series of "back and forth" associated with that person, you can not stop coming back to him or her. You still waiting for changes in this man.

"Maybe this time really will be different," you say to yourself with a stubborn naivete. You are once again close eye on everything.

You know perfectly well what is going on, what are the consequences of what is happening and why it is bad for you.

You also know very well the difference between those for whom you are in the first place and for whom you just kind of addition.

Usually sanity eventually wins, but often it takes a lot of time. Your emotions are trumpeting the naked truth in your face, because you are too quick to give up his desire to hug her or him.

I guess it could be perceived as weakness and emotional immaturity that in varying degrees and there.

We are told never to settle for less than we deserve.

So why we do not follow this advice? Is what we are tempted to give ourselves fully to the person who does not appreciate us as we deserve, makes us not so valuable?

Maybe it just makes us more human, silly one hand, feeding hopes on the other hand, vulnerable and at the same time stubborn.

We deliberately did not listen to the advice of our friends, although it is aware of the harm caused by this long-awaited, and most likely drunk kiss. All we need is that they would like us as much as we want them.

Causing pain is one of the most intimate experiences that you can experience with someone. This is in order to determine the strongest among us, because we all have feelings and memories that we let go reluctantly.

But I think that while you can not control your feelings, you, however, can still control how you bypassed others.

We very much would like to believe that people can change for us, but we must face the truth, it will never happen. It is important to understand and accept.

The question is, how long you can endure all this, and part of the solution lies in the awareness of their limits, and what you really need. All this is not easy, but in the end, only your happiness in your own hands.

Some people, no matter how much we are drawn to him, not worth it.

Sophia Wu


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