A woman should educate their husband's care and kindness. Normal state men - exploit wife. Therefore, a woman should be able to hold her husband at a distance, when he starts to use it much. It should explain to him how she likes that he treated her. The man is very dependent on the feminine energy, it quickly breaks down and realizes that he needs to learn how to behave with her because of it, and he and she will be fine. And the wise wife humbly with Love teaches man how he should conduct themselves with it, and while it continues to obey and serve him.