Secret desires of a man over 50 that he does not share with a woman Bashny.Net

Once in our time it is possible to talk about the personal, hopefully no one will throw a stone at us, tell us that men have their secrets. Mainstream manhoodEspecially for those who are in their 50s, it’s not a specific one. Everyone has it different, because men generally have the most diverse life experience. Everyone in life has their own events, ups and downs. However, we do have some statistics. The majority of males fall under it.



In essence, these are not even secrets, but secret desires. We all know how hard it is to talk to a man after fifty. They have so much to say and will never admit it. No one knows what the modern generation will be like at this age: men may be the first to cry about their problems. However, the current “men”, who are over half a penny, absorbed silence along with their mother’s milk. This is how they were raised and will never change again. Therefore, adult couples often have misunderstandings and even conflicts. How do you solve a dispute if your opponent can’t even explain why?

At first, you might think that for men, age is not an important variable. Well, the problems are basically the same. And in our time, there is no such clear difference between generations as, say, 100 years ago. And this will not even be a mistake, indeed, the questions of young and mature men overlap. You do not need to search for the same social networks and dating sites. According to statistics, they are used by men of different ages, almost in the same proportion. Let’s talk about the essence of our question. What is the secret of men after 50 years?

When married partners are old enough, there comes a period in their lives when they are forced to look at their relationship in a new way. Children leave their native walls and move to rented apartments, get married or live in dormitories at universities. Now they need to literally pray that they once again call or even come to visit. Financially, it can be different, but by adulthood, people already know how to live with what they have.

Wives begin to look at husbands and husbands look at wives. Before, when either or both of them went to work, there was no time to think about why you were together at all. We had to raise children. Put him on his feet. That's the most important thing. And then they disappeared, and the old grievances as if by magic surfaced before my eyes with amazing clarity. How do you deal with that? Some men begin to press the glass. Someone begins to behave with his wife as a stranger. And some people go out for fun. Now the spouses cause only irritation.



That’s why there are so many people who want a divorce. The routine takes over and demands sacrifice. But do not think that the typical man dreaming of a divorce is a collective image of a poor man watching TV in a torn dirty shirt. That's not true. Recall, the men who divorced after 50 years, including Brad Pitt, Bill Gates, Antonio Banderas.

As we all know, a midlife crisis in men can appear even from the age of thirty. Some believe that this period in men is caused by the fact that his ancestors by that time had already played everything in the box. And the internal settings of the body in modern thirty-year-olds are so knocked down. What to do next, if the mammoth is no longer necessary to catch, and wave a sword on the battlefield too? But after 50 years, men begin a new crisis. A crisis of self-determination.



Peels Technologies are developing so rapidly that not all young people have time to keep up with them. Entire professions literally lose their relevance after only a few years. Billionaires are becoming bankrupt, and ordinary schoolchildren are getting rich before their eyes, and this is not even the headlines of the yellow press. It's a routine these days. And for a man who has traded for half a century, comes the realization that he is no longer needed by anyone.

The son did not need in life his father's instructions on how to fix a socket or screw a light bulb. Now this information is not so relevant. But to send SMS my father never learned himself. There was no time. The younger generation is healthier, richer, smarter. What is left for older men who still consider themselves masters of the house and are still “oh-oh” in general? They also have their own needs and goals.



Of course, everyone struggles with sadness in their own way. This is where family support is best. And most of all, the support of your beloved wife. Unfortunately, men at this age rarely agree to have at least a few sessions with a psychologist. The stubbornness of a generation and emotional stinginess. There’s nothing to be done about it, because that’s how they were raised. Somewhere in here is the secret of men.

Everyone knows how fragile the male “defense” becomes when it comes to issues of intimacy. When you're young, of course, it's a different thing. Jokes on the topic below the belt are even fun and funny. But after fifty, the attitude towards them suddenly changes. What to do, age takes its toll. Physical activity decreases over the years. Pressure, blood vessels and trivial shortness of breath. No one is getting any younger. And yet it is men who are experiencing this moment very, very tragically. Women, especially those without excess weight, do not understand.

By the way, there's no good. And it happens that men who in life could not stand sports, suddenly give up all their bad habits, buy tracksuits, sneakers and begin to slowly bring their body in order. Another thing is how motivated they are. But some ex-fat people literally turn into toasty beauties if they are lucky with genetics. And that, no matter what, changes for the better.



But women’s criticism of men to survive is not easy. If the things that you handled 10 years ago are doing you well today, this moment will cause negative emotions in everyone. One to the other, negativity plus negativity - and these not very good emotions have already accumulated a whole snowball. How do we get rid of it?

Someone is trying to spend all their money on doctors who promise to restore youth to men. Others try to clean themselves up by meeting younger women. It's like the whole problem is the appearance of the wife. Some people simply do not see any benefit from marriage without intimacy. We move on to the very first of our male secrets, which is divorce. A closed circle. But that's what happens most of the time.

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How can you help people with their internal problems? For some, this may sound rude, but in most cases they just need not interfere. Most men in adulthood understand this world and its rules. Of course, there have been many exceptions lately. Those who, even at such a serious age, for example, play some Tanki and do not care about the well-being of their family. But in this case, it is the specialists who should work with them. Although without their personal desire and desire to change, it is unlikely that anything will happen. If you don’t want to change, stay where you were yesterday. And the world at this time is developing at a breathtaking speed.