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My husband and I were doing great until I got pregnant, now he's just not giving me life.
Like they say. pregnantThey have the same whims, a sudden change of mood and new terrible eating habits. Well, even if something like this happens to expectant mothers, it's easy to explain medically. The production of a huge amount of hormones and an unstable psychological state will bring anyone.
Peels is another thing, how men behave during this period. The statistics are actually very intriguing. There are, of course, perfect spouses. Who listen to experts in everything. Bring home only useful products and take care of their soul mates. There are, unfortunately, freaks. There are also men whose behavior changes during pregnancy. They become as unpredictable as their wives. Doctors call it “pregnant dad syndrome.”
You know, I thought my first pregnancy would be very easy. Not like everyone else. Judge for yourself: we decided not to rush, and first to deal with the career. I am 32 years old, my husband Stas is 34. We live in a compact city with good infrastructure. I earn an above-average salary and work in an office. My husband is always on the road, but he gets paid several times more than me. We're comfortable with that regime.
Peels found a good doctor, booked a room. It seems like everything should go well. My friends who gave birth advised me a lot of videos about proper breathing during pregnancy, meditation, smells. I like to be alone sometimes so that there are only aromatic oils, candles and calm, pleasant music. It's soothing.
But in the sixth month, complications began. And not where you might think. I tried not to succumb to my emotions and carefully watched whether new habits appeared in my life. But no, I didn't notice anything special. Since I was still going to work, my gastronomic tastes were easy to track. I ate the same food as before I was pregnant. Only by reducing some coffee and sweets. That's probably why I wasn't blown away.
Peels Unexpected Metamorphosis But My Husband Has Changed He just came from another business trip, so he stayed home all day. It’s okay, we have a three-bedroom apartment, for which we still pay a mortgage. For family relationships, having the right space is a real salvation.
He used to just go to his room and play the console. He also has dumbbells, a barbell and a guitar. In short, a complete set of things he dreamed of when he was young. His outlet. We agreed that in the future this room will go to the child, and he knows it well. I thought during my pregnancy he would calm the nerves in his "men's office," too, but no.
It's like Stas was replaced. He somewhere read about the fact that during pregnancy, a woman’s body undergoes some special update. The Internet also gave him some quack semi-mystical articles. They said that every pregnant woman should also drink breast milk. Otherwise, there's a chance she'll leave the family and all that. Well, here we go.
Strange Behavior Since then, Stas has been chasing me to cook everything with milk. Thanks for the usual cow. And I hate milk. One day my husband brought me a serving of pasta in milk with a piece of butter on top, so I almost threw up from one kind of this dish. For my husband, it was a sign that the toxins were coming out. And he doubled down on trying to feed me some more crap from his sites.
At one point I gave up and said I'd have ice cream. There's milk in there too. And for a while, my husband was behind. But not for long. He also read that cleaning the apartment by old-fashioned methods is a kind of gymnastics for a woman in a position. Got a broom, a scoop and a mop somewhere. And he announced that from now on I would only wash dishes with my hands. And to clean the apartment not as before, but with the help of household items brought to them. And we have a new robot vacuum cleaner and a dishwasher, just so you know.
Because of the constant finding at home and reading all sorts of nonsense Stas very well began to gain excess weight. I like aesthetic men, so for me such changes were quite noticeable. Especially when he's out in the kitchen without a shirt, or when we're watching a movie together on TV. I thought he even had a little shortness of breath.
So now we have two pregnant personalities in our apartment. For a long time, one does not fit into old clothes and constantly requires attention. And the other one is me. Honestly, I can't understand how this all came about. We are adults with education and experience. Well, I got pregnant. It is also planned for love. Why go crazy?
But looking at Stas, I experience a variety of emotions. Sometimes I want to laugh, and sometimes he pisses me off so I don’t even know what to do. Probably, for the body it is also stress. I also hope that his behavior will change very soon. What will I do with my hysterical child and husband? Maybe they'll call and pick him up for a while. Look, the male hormones will take their toll and he'll calm down. Tell me, is this the only one I have, or does it happen so often?
Peels is another thing, how men behave during this period. The statistics are actually very intriguing. There are, of course, perfect spouses. Who listen to experts in everything. Bring home only useful products and take care of their soul mates. There are, unfortunately, freaks. There are also men whose behavior changes during pregnancy. They become as unpredictable as their wives. Doctors call it “pregnant dad syndrome.”
You know, I thought my first pregnancy would be very easy. Not like everyone else. Judge for yourself: we decided not to rush, and first to deal with the career. I am 32 years old, my husband Stas is 34. We live in a compact city with good infrastructure. I earn an above-average salary and work in an office. My husband is always on the road, but he gets paid several times more than me. We're comfortable with that regime.
Peels found a good doctor, booked a room. It seems like everything should go well. My friends who gave birth advised me a lot of videos about proper breathing during pregnancy, meditation, smells. I like to be alone sometimes so that there are only aromatic oils, candles and calm, pleasant music. It's soothing.
But in the sixth month, complications began. And not where you might think. I tried not to succumb to my emotions and carefully watched whether new habits appeared in my life. But no, I didn't notice anything special. Since I was still going to work, my gastronomic tastes were easy to track. I ate the same food as before I was pregnant. Only by reducing some coffee and sweets. That's probably why I wasn't blown away.
Peels Unexpected Metamorphosis But My Husband Has Changed He just came from another business trip, so he stayed home all day. It’s okay, we have a three-bedroom apartment, for which we still pay a mortgage. For family relationships, having the right space is a real salvation.
He used to just go to his room and play the console. He also has dumbbells, a barbell and a guitar. In short, a complete set of things he dreamed of when he was young. His outlet. We agreed that in the future this room will go to the child, and he knows it well. I thought during my pregnancy he would calm the nerves in his "men's office," too, but no.
It's like Stas was replaced. He somewhere read about the fact that during pregnancy, a woman’s body undergoes some special update. The Internet also gave him some quack semi-mystical articles. They said that every pregnant woman should also drink breast milk. Otherwise, there's a chance she'll leave the family and all that. Well, here we go.
Strange Behavior Since then, Stas has been chasing me to cook everything with milk. Thanks for the usual cow. And I hate milk. One day my husband brought me a serving of pasta in milk with a piece of butter on top, so I almost threw up from one kind of this dish. For my husband, it was a sign that the toxins were coming out. And he doubled down on trying to feed me some more crap from his sites.
At one point I gave up and said I'd have ice cream. There's milk in there too. And for a while, my husband was behind. But not for long. He also read that cleaning the apartment by old-fashioned methods is a kind of gymnastics for a woman in a position. Got a broom, a scoop and a mop somewhere. And he announced that from now on I would only wash dishes with my hands. And to clean the apartment not as before, but with the help of household items brought to them. And we have a new robot vacuum cleaner and a dishwasher, just so you know.
Because of the constant finding at home and reading all sorts of nonsense Stas very well began to gain excess weight. I like aesthetic men, so for me such changes were quite noticeable. Especially when he's out in the kitchen without a shirt, or when we're watching a movie together on TV. I thought he even had a little shortness of breath.
So now we have two pregnant personalities in our apartment. For a long time, one does not fit into old clothes and constantly requires attention. And the other one is me. Honestly, I can't understand how this all came about. We are adults with education and experience. Well, I got pregnant. It is also planned for love. Why go crazy?
But looking at Stas, I experience a variety of emotions. Sometimes I want to laugh, and sometimes he pisses me off so I don’t even know what to do. Probably, for the body it is also stress. I also hope that his behavior will change very soon. What will I do with my hysterical child and husband? Maybe they'll call and pick him up for a while. Look, the male hormones will take their toll and he'll calm down. Tell me, is this the only one I have, or does it happen so often?
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